pregnant or not

Guest over a year ago

i wanted to know if i miight be pregnant or not becuase i had unprtected sex and im havein cramps nd my breast hurt alot i have back pain and also i dont know because my period is not regular i get it different days ??

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

For starters, I strongly suggest that you stop having unprotected sex unless you are ready to handle the consequences. You definitely MIGHT be pregnant! However, you also might be experiencing PMS, because usually early pregnancy symptoms and PMS symptoms are very much the same. All I can suggest to you is wait for your period for a few weeks (if you say they tend to fluctuate), but definitely test in even say a few days! Remember to use your first morning urine, do not drink a lot of fluids before the test and keep it long enough in your urine stream. Follow the instructions on the test, they come fairly cheap and are pretty accurate as well. Seeing the likelihood of your pregnancy is so high this is all I can tell you for now. Best of luck to you in getting the results you want.

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

I would like to know what is the chance to get pregnant when you're on your period?? i was on my period few days ago but then it was starting to end, there still was a bit blood....Thurday night we went to a party and we had too much to drink and when I say too much i mean like tooooooo much!! Me and one of my friend got carried away and we had sex... I really cant remember much but i know we used a condom and then he aid afterward he took it off and we had unprotected sex... that happend the friday morning at about 4am...really early moorning hours.... yesterday my tummy felt weird..... and toay(saturday) still feels weird...my friend says he did not cum inside me.... but i'm still scared.... should i get the morning after pill or i am not pregnant??

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Well, if you are regular on your periods, chances on getting pregnant on your period is unlikely. Keep in mind though, that sperm can live inside a woman for up to 5 days, so I've heard. So yes,there is always a chance on getting pregnant, seeing that unless you're actually monitoring when you ovulate, you never can know if you ovulate early for example. Even though he says he didn't cum in you (which you shouldn't 100% trust, seeing that you were drinking, could be that he doesn't remember or doesn't want to confess), there is always precum. Now, precum doesn't always get you pregnant, but it definitely can given the right circumstances. So yes honey, I suggest you get the morning after pill just in case :-)

About your tummy, it could be something to do with your drinking perhaps? You would NOT feel anything regarding pregnancy down in your belly for a loooong time, it also could be if you think about being pregnant, you are more aware of all movement (bowel movements etc) that go on there.

So yes, I do suggest the morning after pill, and for future reference I suggest getting some form of protection like the pill? Things happen at parties, I am well aware of that being quite a party animal myself, and even the simplest things like protection can be forgotten drunk or in the heat of the moment. :-D

I hope this was helpful and wish you good luck!

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

I want to know whats the chance that i am pregnant?? I was on my period but it was about to finish. There still was a little blood though but like a spot or two. Thursday night we went to a party and we had a little too much todrink. and i mean tooooooo much to drink. My friend an I had sex the Friday morning at 4am....really early morning hours.... i cant remember much but i know we used a condom... afterwards he took it off and we had unprotected sex. The friday my tummy felt weird but i thought it could be because of hangover, but today it still feels werid (saturday). Should i get the morning after pill or should i just leave it. Whats the Chance that i coud be pegnant? (My friend says he did not "left his sperm in me" you know what i mean??)

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Well, like my above answer said, chances of getting pregnant around that time are slim, but there is always a possibility. Drunken actions of sex tend to leave a cloudy blur, so even if your friend says he didn't ejaculate inside you, don't take his word so lightly. Love yourself enough and protect yourself from an unwanted pregnancy. So yes I'm still suggesting you get the pill.

Trust me feeling in your tummy right now wouldn't have anything to do with the possible pregnancy, seeing that it takes 6-12 days to implant, and even then it might even take a few weeks until you'll start getting any symptoms.

Best regards,

yours truly

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

thank you... that was one night in my life that never should've happnd but now it did.... i feel c**p about it because its not the type of person i am...

thank you. i will visit my nearest pharmacy. would the pill still be effective?

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Aww honey, don't get too down on yourself. These things happen, you live and learn and life goes on. We all sometimes do things that we definitely regret. The pill is usually effective for the first 72 hours after sex, after which it's effectiveness drops down to 50% and tappers off of course as time passes on. So I suggest you get the pill as fast as you can. If you have any more questions for instance regarding the pill, let me know and I will be more than happy to answer!

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

i feel really bad about what happend. I am gonig to the pharmaccy about in 20 minutes... i told my friend he should come with me 'cos he made this mess!! hehe it feels like i just want to climb in bed and never get up. i feel ashamed. thank you i will, right after getting back from the pharmacy.

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Oh darling, trust me, I've been there! I was in a mess very similar to yours! I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and of course we kept it a secret, but I got so scared I had to tell my mother - boy she didn't like that! But yes, I do remember the shame and the want to climb into bed. Yes, take your friend along, he should definitely be supportive on this. Don't worry I'm not going anywhere so you can ask me more about the pill once you get back. :-)

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

okay...i got it... its in my hands... but this morning i used a tampon just to see if there is any blood cos i could not notice yesterday, i had black underpants on... hehe and i took ou the tampon just now, there still was blood... but not much...or enough for the tampon to suck in.. hehe it just...mmmh "covered" the tampon... should i still drink the pill now?

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

gonna drink it just for safety

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Good idea, now as for the morning after pill. You may experience slight spotting, nausea, cramping or like me, I was extremely tired the few days after taking the pill. The symptoms shouldn't last long though. Usually your next period will come on time after taking the pill. :-) If you want to know more please let me know.

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girlunsure197755 over a year ago

i am really tired right now, and my tummy is crampng. i am a bit nausea but not much, enough to deal with...hehehhee thanks alot you really helped m out! hehe i'm totally relaxed now, i was sort of stressing out!! have a nice evening... we will talk soon* thanx alot:-D

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DggyDgP187408 over a year ago

Glad to hear it's bearable! And no problem what so ever, I'm happy to help! :-) Yeah, these things definitely do cause a lot of stress. But now everything is a-ok! Have a good evening too!

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