Worried if i'm pregnant or not

Anytime you have sex there is a chance of pregnancy and if your that late I would definately go out and get a home pregnancy test-if its positive schedule an appointment with your gyn as soon as possiable. 10 days is quite a while -specially if ths spotting your now experincing has yet to turn into a period like bleeding Pulling our is not a reliable form of contraception- as a matter of fact that is how I ended up with my 6 month old!!

well i ended up spotting a little the last few days. not enough to put a tampon in tho :-/ i'm starting to get a little worried. sshould i just buy a test or should i not worry?

like I said - Buy a test...do it and get it over with-- if you are pregnant its not going to just go away, believe me.... and if your not you will feel better knowing so- Let me know how it goes- buy a test and take it...today

i just have wasted so much money in pregnancy tests and got neg results. i dont have the money and i dont want to be disapointed when it shows neg. what about brown discharge? preg symptom or no?

It CAN be. pregnancy hormones increases our blood levels and causes our insides to be SUPER sensitive and the blood in those vessels are SUPER full OR it could be left over "implantation bleeding" getting flushed out with the increased discharge that comes with pregnancy (it increases signifigantly)...As long as its just discharge/spotting and not a period (enough to use a pad or tampon) You need to take a test either at home or go to a free clinic. Have you taken any tests in the last 10 days? You could buy a test from the dollar store and it would be accurate at the point (the cheaper ones test for higher levels usually and your levels would be high enough by now) I would think that test would be worth the peace of mind of just knowing. SO you can stop wondering...and if its negative you can find out why you haven't got your cycle so you can fix it and try again (if thats what you want.)

yeah I think after I get paid i'm going to go buy one. I'm having lower back pain, neck pain, i'm sick because my boyfriend got me sick, but i have no energy, short of breath on top of the spotting, a week late and what I think might have been implantation bleeding earlier in the month.

then again, I could just be worrying for nothing and had a bladder infection, just sick and stressed out. I don't know anymore, I tend to worry too much about these things. The only difference is, usually I worry and my period would be a few days late. This time I noticed I was a week and a half late then started to worry.

i never get back pain tho, could that be pregnancy related?

lol sorri, like i said, i worry a lot

Dont be sorry this a common worry for ALL sexually active women....Lower back pain- CAN be pregnancy related...although its not usually this early...but it could be...the HCG hormone does some CRAZY things to our bodies and since so many changes happen so fast there is a very long list of "symptoms" that can be contributed to pregnancy...that's why I usually tell girls that symptoms don't really mean a whole lot...also because a lot of the symptoms we can "trick" ourselves into feeling...or they are from something else like an *illness ;-)- which could very well be whats going on here....the bottom line is-- you just are not going to know until you test...and like most you have already worked yourself up some much about it I really wouldn't put much stock into the symptoms you started feeling after your realized you were late and you started thinking about pregnancy. short of breath really wouldn't be a symptom...how long have you been "spotting" what do you classify as spotting? Is it still the same as it was in your first post- hasn't stopped or increased at all??