Hello, i am a completely normal 22 year old male. I enjoy going out, meeting and mingling with people, etc etc. I enjoy masturbation becuase it seems like i have more control of my pleasure that way. I have a problem in the bedroom though! Not sure why, but still at my age i worry about prematurely letting go, and if i havent been drinkin, she's lucky she gets 5-10 minutes tops. No girl wants her first time with the new guy to be a drunken blurr even if its real good and goes for an hour. There have been times where i can put it in and pump twice or three times and thats it. Quite often. I need some help!!! I have tried: numbing creams, thinking about stupid things in bed to get my mind off it, even thinkin of gross things that i wont mention to try to sway my mind. The only thing that works is alcohol, but then again sometimes i cant get it workin and im not that drunk. What do i do???

Adam