REPOST: Period when pregnant? 16 and Scared

Guest over a year ago

i had unprotected sex on my ovulation day June 9.........and ever since then ive felt pregnant O.O. for starters the week after i was really tired and was eating much more. i wake every night with cramps. and one day my stomach was going through alot of noises and stuff and every time i ate it would hurttttt. i had nausea only a little, crampy, weird dreams, sore boobs/nips, veins ect. when expected ovulation came again i didnt have any EWCM (egg white cervicalmucus) . i continued to check and it was sometimes creamy or thick/tacky always white but never stretchy. well my "period" came 2 days early so i thought but it wasnt my usual 7 days it was maybe 41/2. tmi but it started pink (scant) then dark red (heavier flow) and then brown (spotting). i was shocked but decided to wait to see if i missed this period and while waiting still prego symptoms are here including itchy nips and swollen boobs. period came so i THINK but this time started brown and now dark red. im so confused. maybe im crazy.......anyone? i just turned 16 and the guy doesnt even want to buy me a test!

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bbfeet964662 over a year ago

Dear Guest,

Sometimes our periods do strange things and are not always the normalcy that we are used to. But if you feel like you may be pregnant, you need to find out as soon as you can. I think that because you had a period, although it seemed odd in duration, you are probably not pregnant,but i can't explain the pregnancy symptoms that you are describing.

Now......let's discuss "the guy"!!!!

Is he your boyfriend or just a booty call? Who the heck is he to tell you not to buy a pregnancy test? Seriously!!!! This is your body, your money and your stress, tell him to take a hike and march your little behind to your nearest Walmart, throw down 20.00 and see if your pregnant, period. Who is he to tell you not to do this? Apparently it didn't bother him when you two were doing the horizonal boogie hmmm? Did he break out the condoms? Did he ask you if you were on birth control? Probably not.

Listen hon, you are just 16 and you have a whole lifetime ahead of you. DO NOT let a guy tell you what to do, ever. So just get to the store and take care of business. It will put your mind to rest one way or the other. Take the test and let me know what the results were, then we can go from there. Just relax and get it done, sooner than later.

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Guest over a year ago

maybe it was just a strange period...but just when i start to think that it was i hear about decidual bleeding during pregnancy -__-

this af is much lighter than the last one which is crazyyyy

i thought about buying a test butt i honestly think ill be sad if its neg.

is it bad for me to actually want a baby? ="(

the guy really doesnt matter anymore now i just wish it was true.....so im scared to buy a test

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bbfeet964662 over a year ago

Mornin guest,

You are just 16, do you really wany a child at this age? There is so much more to focus on right now, like education and all the other "stuff" that 16 year olds do. When all the other kids are going out and enjoying their teen years, you will be saddled at home with an infant. I got pregnant straight out of high school, tho i was a little older than you. I wanted to go to college to become an undertaker ( i know, weird huh) but that was squashed. I was just 18 and never got the chance to make something of myself. Granted, the baby's daddy took care of business, we got married and had 2 more baby's. I love my children with my whole heart and soul, but i wish they came a few years later.

So please, stop living in fairy tale land and go buy a test, and take it. It will take you 5 minutes to pee on a stick. Every girl dreams of motherhood, but you will get your chance when the time is right. If you are pregnant....well we can discuss that when you find out.

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Guest over a year ago

i feel like this would actually give me the motivation to accomplish my dreams...not the opposite.

which may seem like fairytale land but to me reality...........

on another note im not buying the test until my "expected" second trimester to see if the bleeding stops

i know my body and this isnt normal for me so i really feel like i am,,,,no matter how much i also really want to be

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