I'm 18 years old, and previously dated a girl for just over four years. Our first two years of dating, we tried a lot of oral and physical pleasure, but no sex. None of these things would stimulate me enough to reach an orgasm. So we decided we'd try sex, and instantly, as well as prematurely, I blew my load. Ever since then we've had sex countless numbers of times, and I've been able to ejaculate probably 95% of the time. We've tried going back to hand jobs and blow jobs, but they still don't work. I've also tried personal masturbation, which seems to get boring after the first 5 minutes, and I've never been able to ejaculate during that either. I've recently been with two other girls, neither of which have been able to produce cum while performing anything other than sex. What gives?
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its totally normal to only be able to ejaculate through sex but you sound like you really dont want to be having sex if you want to climax from a hand job why dont you show her how you do it when you masterbabte teach her how you do it and tell her exactlly what you would like. communicate with each other.
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Well, that's just the thing, I've never actually masturbated myself before, for enough time to climax. I've tried watching porn, many different types of videos, pictures, etc. but none of it really excites me enough.
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i think once your in a close comfortable relationship with someone you trust then you should have fun searching with that partner for what turns you on. i advice you not to sleep around and try different things with different people as it will be hard to feel at ease and be able to relax with someone you hardly know. it will be 100% better with someone you care about and love, just relax dont rush it.
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