sex with a boyfriend

Hi guest, only you have the right to decide what you do with your body. It is your body and your choice. From the sound of your question it sounds like you feel pressured and you don't feel ready. Listen to that. It is your intuition telling you it doesn't feel right. At 14 you are too young for sex. I know some 14 year olds have sex, but that doesn't make it a good choice. Wait until you are older. Sex really complicates things emotionally and you are better able to deal with that when you are older. Also there is the possibility of pregnancy and STDs. Tell him you are not ready. If he doesn't respect that then he doesn't respect you. If he truly cares about you he will be prepared to wait. only go out with someone who shows you he cares. You deserve the best. I hope that helps.