Hi,
I am 22 and have been sexually active since I was 16. I have now slept with 12 people. I recently was fingered by my boyfriend very roughly and resulted in him "fisting" me. After, there was alot of blood and discomfort. There is also something from the inside of my vagina dangling outside. It is now 5 days after and I am still experiencing little bleeding, thick discharge and this "meat" is dangling. All of the inside of me is swollen and I am hoping that in a week or so it will all be back to normal. However, I am begining to wonder if any real damage has been done that I should go to see the doctor about?
Thank you
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I am 22 and have been sexually active since I was 16. I have now slept with 12 people. I recently was fingered by my boyfriend very roughly and resulted in him "fisting" me. After, there was alot of blood and discomfort. There is also something from the inside of my vagina dangling outside. It is now 5 days after and I am still experiencing little bleeding, thick discharge and this "meat" is dangling. All of the inside of me is swollen and I am hoping that in a week or so it will all be back to normal. However, I am begining to wonder if any real damage has been done that I should go to see the doctor about?
Thank you
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Sounds like you need to see your doctor now. The obstruction hanging from your vagina may be that because he was so "rough" he may have caused some severe swelling of your uterus. I will never understand how pain and bleeding and swelling and discomfort can be enjoyable, but that's me o.O I just got out of a marraige where my husband completly got off on some pretty rough sex. I can get into the handcuffs and the spankings, but when i have a headache for a few days after due to excessive hair pulling or black and blues as a result of twisting and pinching, i can't get into that at all.
He may have dislodged something as well, but it really sounds like your uterus has been compremised and is really swollen and painful.
He may have dislodged something as well, but it really sounds like your uterus has been compremised and is really swollen and painful.
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BBFeet, I was thinking the same thing. "Fisting" can cause some real damage, especially if he has very large hands. If you have severe pain, that is not normal, and whatever is hanging down isn't either. It could your cervix, and that is dangerous. I would go to the doc right away...
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I don't know, you may have a prolapse, which means "a falling down or out" Lots of times an appliance can be used to elevate the uterus back into it's rightful position. Lots of time this will happen to an older or elderly women or a women that has had many children, it's from a very weak muscle. Hopefully this isn't your case. I think that maybe you two got a lot out of countrol and you are VERY swollen.
You really should see your doctor and i hope that this has not caused you any permanent damage.
When you get your problem fixed, remember what you just went thru. Don't let your bf do that to you again. Our vaginas arent really made for that.
You really should see your doctor and i hope that this has not caused you any permanent damage.
When you get your problem fixed, remember what you just went thru. Don't let your bf do that to you again. Our vaginas arent really made for that.
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Hi, good news everyone!
I went to the doctors and it turns out it is just a skin tag on my vagina wall (pulpus i think the Doctor called it) that was irritated during the foreplay action. I am having it removed under local anasthetic.
However there is no doubt that what happened shouldn't have and I should have had more control of the situation. I think this is lesson learnt for me and I feel very fortunate of the result. Thank you both for your advice, you were absolutly right to advise me to go to the doctors and as soon as I read both of your messages (although they shocked me a little) I knew you were absolutly right. Sometimes you just need that kick up the bum! which is exactly what you gave me!
Thank you both!
I went to the doctors and it turns out it is just a skin tag on my vagina wall (pulpus i think the Doctor called it) that was irritated during the foreplay action. I am having it removed under local anasthetic.
However there is no doubt that what happened shouldn't have and I should have had more control of the situation. I think this is lesson learnt for me and I feel very fortunate of the result. Thank you both for your advice, you were absolutly right to advise me to go to the doctors and as soon as I read both of your messages (although they shocked me a little) I knew you were absolutly right. Sometimes you just need that kick up the bum! which is exactly what you gave me!
Thank you both!
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Yay...good for you and i am so glad that you decided to visit your doctor.
I don't want you to feel like i tried to kick you in the bum, but i just put you in my daughters place for a minute and that is how i would have talked to her, only more in the mother fashion >:( when i get like that, they all sit up an take notice.
You say you have learned your lesson, that's wonderful. Now carry on and have safe and less painful sex. Have all the sex u want but lets try not to dislodge any more body parts ;-)
I don't want you to feel like i tried to kick you in the bum, but i just put you in my daughters place for a minute and that is how i would have talked to her, only more in the mother fashion >:( when i get like that, they all sit up an take notice.
You say you have learned your lesson, that's wonderful. Now carry on and have safe and less painful sex. Have all the sex u want but lets try not to dislodge any more body parts ;-)
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You might want to forgive my ignorance here but what exactly is fisting? I am not sure if I know exactly what it is that you're referring to. Can someone enlighten me?
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"fisting" Is when the whole hand rolled into a fist is introduced into the vagina, ya the whole thing o.O
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So glad you went to the doc and that it wasn't anything as serious as what BBfeet and myself were suggesting!! I agree, I didn't want to pressure you to go to the doc, but I just treated it as if one of my girlfriends was having this issue, and I told you, just like I would tell her, which was to get your bum to the doc!
Yes, be control of what is happening during sex, but I am sure, after this, you will be alot more careful XD
Take Care!
Yes, be control of what is happening during sex, but I am sure, after this, you will be alot more careful XD
Take Care!
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My boyfriend and I fist on a regular basis and he is always extremely gentle and we use a lot of lube. It should NEVER hurt and if you do bleed it should be a little spotting and that's it. It sounds like he didn't know what he was doing and you should really go get checked out if you haven't already. It hurting is a huge indicator he did something wrong.
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I know this was long ago but I might be experiencing something like this now and I'm scared, while this happened did the inside of your vagina have white stuff like it may have looked like a yeast infection or something around that ?
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id just completed my exams,had6 cans of beer,went to sleep,got up at 2 am,my knees were up,legs folded underwear half way down my thighs,like i was getting ready to have sex, missionery position,i touched myself,was wet,so i knew id an orgasm at some point,got up had some water went back to sleep,several hours later my vagina feels raw,i do not know what i did .....it scares me because i probably do things in my sleep without knowing.theres shooting pains from deep inside,ive checked to see if i probably stuck something inside my lady parts,
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I would think so, but children probably shouldn't be part of your immediate future anyway.
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