Hi,

   I need some help from everyone, i am 33yrs old live in uk had 3 c-section but my third child died of brain tumar when he was 4 months 3 days after that had 2 miscaridge and had gall bladder removed in 2011 and i also have underactive Thyriod which the medication has made me put on weight, I have tried everything try to loss weight past four years then i noticed i have this lump inside my stomac, when i first noticed it was size of a tennis ball when i showed my GP she told me it must be HERINA so she is reffering me to  HERRINA surrgen to see me so i got my first appointment in 15th OCT 2012 when i went there they said it was cancelled and i got the a letter to go on 22th OCT 2012 this when i went there the doctor checked me out and said i don't think its a Hernia but we would like you to have a X-Ray i said ok when i left the hospital about 10-15min's later i got the phone call from the doctor who seen me and said he found my old X-Ray report from April and it was fine i don't need an X-Ray he will see me in 3 months and got an appointment to be seen on 14th JAN 2013.

since then the lump has gone so big it is same size of a rugby ball my stomac has drop down i have to lift my stomac to sit down my back pain has gone worse i can't sleep lying down or side ways i have been sleeping sitting on the sofa nearly 2 years i tried sleeping lying down but i don't last no more than 20-30mins then pain kicks in and am screaming in pain  i have not slept in a bed for very long time and as time goes by my pain is getting worse no medication work my life is down the drain because of me my husband and kids are suffering and to make things worse my husband is scared to touch me and its been 1 years we had no sex.

when 14th Jan 2013 came i went to the hospital and guss what my appointment has been cancelled again they did not inform me and then i found out that they dicharged me without treating me i have put in a complaint and they sent me letter saying that they are looking in to it and they will let me know with in 5th March 2013 till then what shall i do i can't take it any more my life has been hell since 2006 till now i have been through alot mentaly,fizzcally am not happy with my life not only that i making my family life miserable.

 

sorry its bit too long but i needed to tell you about me so you know what am going through.

plus high blood presure

cholesterol level 4.1