idk how to put this but um when i look at "flicks" (porn) my penis would be long and 8 inches almost and when i'm about to have sex with a girl its like 7 and a half but thick last time i tried to have sex with my gf the next day she told me that when it was in there she said it hurt her she said a little bit.. she said it may be stretching. She wants me to have sex again and after she told me that idk if i want to do it again bcuz i fear that i might hurt her again and i don't want to do that to her
PS: she is the only girl i have sex with and we "were" virgins so i think it may be because she is tight but idk
Thanks For The Help!
PS: she is the only girl i have sex with and we "were" virgins so i think it may be because she is tight but idk
Thanks For The Help!
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The vagina is a potential space... that is, it can stretch to accomodate all kinds of shapes and lengths.
If this was the first time for both of you, you're both nervous and inexperienced.
I wouldn't try to jump to any conclusions that the two of you are mis-matched yet. She may not have been as wet as she could have been, and you probably weren't at your most smooth either.
It's good that you're concerned about her, and that you don't want to hurt her, but if she's willing, then try again (WITH PROTECTION!) and take your time.
Sex is much more satisfying and fun when the woman is turned on, and women get turned on by cuddling, kissing, touching, stroking, feeling and feeling loved. Take your time. Spend a lot of time in foreplay. The more foreplay, the more she'll relax and be into it. And the more she's turned on, the more likely she'll be ready and not nervous...and not as prone to be irritated or "hurt".
It's good to be sensitive to what she is telling you, but you can help a lot by taking time and going slow.
Maybe the solution is not slaming it all into her, but going slow and probing a little at a time.
ASK her what she wants.
Good luck.
If this was the first time for both of you, you're both nervous and inexperienced.
I wouldn't try to jump to any conclusions that the two of you are mis-matched yet. She may not have been as wet as she could have been, and you probably weren't at your most smooth either.
It's good that you're concerned about her, and that you don't want to hurt her, but if she's willing, then try again (WITH PROTECTION!) and take your time.
Sex is much more satisfying and fun when the woman is turned on, and women get turned on by cuddling, kissing, touching, stroking, feeling and feeling loved. Take your time. Spend a lot of time in foreplay. The more foreplay, the more she'll relax and be into it. And the more she's turned on, the more likely she'll be ready and not nervous...and not as prone to be irritated or "hurt".
It's good to be sensitive to what she is telling you, but you can help a lot by taking time and going slow.
Maybe the solution is not slaming it all into her, but going slow and probing a little at a time.
ASK her what she wants.
Good luck.
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I use protection everytime i already told her about what i would be willing to do way before we had sex it has been twice so far and wen i was over hr house earlier this week i only did foreplay (which she says is excellent) i do go slow and stuff and i do mix it up a bit, but i stopped then like 30 or 40 min passsed and i getting ready to leave which was like around 3 she asked if i wanted a bj a said ya so she did that like 3 or 4 times at the door then pulled me over to the chair and was teasing and stuff) she had given me 7 or 8 bj's by now) and i noticed that she was wet a little i didn't say anthing cuz i thought i might mess up the moment then she got on me (i had condoms with me but i wasn't hard when i stopped after the foreplay and stuff till she did those things and i didn't put them on) and when i knew i almost came (well felt it) she got off and o told her what had happened and later that night she said that her vagina hurt when it in there... I think your right i'll try what you said today and get back to you when i get home. Thanks btw
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I had a change of plans so we won't be doing it today but on mon. we might but either way i still need yalls opinions on this question because i need to know.
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