Me and my girl have been having sex regularly for the past 2 1/2 months now and she says it's great but I dont like that I havent been able to make her orgasm from vaginal intercourse yet. Even though we've done it plenty of times I havent always had the best situations to go all out comfortably.it's like a toss up because I know that 70% of women can't but idk if she's in there. she used say she was about to cum a few times at first or later on afterwards or she'll make me stop when it "feels too good". It kind of bothers me a lil that she doesny chase her orgasm. Usually when we have sex I make her orgasm from oral before and after and that doesnt happen then. Last night I didnt go down and after about 45 minutes of hard sex she "tapped out". Yeah that's cool but I want to make her orgasm. I know im not small because she doesnt let me go in all the way. But im still a little confused.
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Hi. I have read all and I think it has nothing to do with you and it has nothing as such to do with her but when it comes to orgasm through intercourse I think the problem is just the fact that she gets highly sensitive and it probably gets painful for her.
As you say hours 70% of woman can't orgasm through intercourse, if you can make her happy during sex and give her an orgasm other ways then don't pressure her to much about it, it could also be that maybe she feels scared to let her self go completely during intercourse. :-)
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Thanks and they can get over sensitive before? I thought it was only afterwards...and I want to figure out what the reason is... because it affects my motivation...ftmp as a guy sex is only successful if it's finished...and im pretty good at stalling my finish so if she just cant then whats the point for going hours at a time? Or even half an hour?.. we're very affectionate and have great communication...whatever it is is probably subconscious or mechanical... and for me it's kinda that she hasn't been w/ anybody "good" before me so she thinks it's great but I don't want to end up being blown out the water by the next guy (if there is one)
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it could be that gspot stimulation when your having sex gives her to intense an orgasm that's why she stops you
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Ok thanks and I didnt know there could be one that is TOO intense...she said the finger inside "just doesnt feel good"....she doesnt put anything down there so I doubt she's ever had one before..or maybe she has.. cuz she stopped me a couple times and said it was because she felt like she was going to squirt
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it could also be the fear and embarrassment that if she lets her self go she is going to pee and not actually squirt because there a quite a few woman that are like that.
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