I'm 18 years old and desperately want to have sex wid my boyfriend. every time he tries to penetrate me it feels as if there's some resistance. my muscles become very tense. i'm unable to relax. I've got a pre-conceived notion dat it's gonna hurt badly. my bf fingered me a lot of times.. first wid 1 finger then 2 n then 3.. please help!! because of this we've shifted towards anal sex... which is very awfully painful but i'm bearing jus for my bf's satisfaction.. i love him a lot.. ?
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It probably will hurt a bit, but I doubt as much as you think. Because you love him, there will be strong emotions involved and I doubt you wouldn't enjoy it at least to some degree.
You can talk a pain reliever about an hour before you have sex. This will help minimize the pain. Also be sure to use lubricant. Use plenty. This will also help minimize the pain. With these two, you should be able to enjoy your first time.
You can talk a pain reliever about an hour before you have sex. This will help minimize the pain. Also be sure to use lubricant. Use plenty. This will also help minimize the pain. With these two, you should be able to enjoy your first time.
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