ive been with my bf for just over a year. during the first 6 months we were having sex like once/twice a day.. then a few months ago i could never seem to get wet from him and it wud take me half an hour to make myself wet and i felt bad coz he seemed to get out of the mood when i did this (not intentionally tho he didnt even know he was giving out these signals). and from then on wen we had sex id dread it because i was always worried about wat hed think and if hed get out of the mood coz it takes me 20mins to get wet so wen we eventually did get to sex it would hurt sometimes and i wouldnt enjoy it as much.
ive never had a problem before getting wet and ive never stopped being attracted to him but im worried he thinks that and so now i try to avoid sex unless i get the chance to make myself wet BEFORE he knoes we're going to have sex (ie i wake him up etc once im wet).
i love sex and have never not enjoyed it i dont know whats going on or why my body isnt responding =( i feel worried that he might not love me as much but im so scared that wen he wants it he cant make me wet so i just pretecnd im tired and stuff (i have recently started working full time thuogh and sometimes i truly am tired).
i read that maybe this is a psychological thing, if so how do people get over it? i kno inside he thinks the problem is him and that wat upsets me most because its honestly me =(
ive never had a problem before getting wet and ive never stopped being attracted to him but im worried he thinks that and so now i try to avoid sex unless i get the chance to make myself wet BEFORE he knoes we're going to have sex (ie i wake him up etc once im wet).
i love sex and have never not enjoyed it i dont know whats going on or why my body isnt responding =( i feel worried that he might not love me as much but im so scared that wen he wants it he cant make me wet so i just pretecnd im tired and stuff (i have recently started working full time thuogh and sometimes i truly am tired).
i read that maybe this is a psychological thing, if so how do people get over it? i kno inside he thinks the problem is him and that wat upsets me most because its honestly me =(
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You should check your hormonal levels because decrease in estrogen leads to vaginal dryness and may cause problems with sex. You should discuss this with your doctor (try gynecologist).
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I have been dealing with this for the past almost year. My OBGYN told me that the women that have come to him about this subject he usually tells them to switch BC. Another thing that helps is using a water based lubes. The others will cause you to dry faster with friction.
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