I'm a little bit worried over the other night. Last night, I decided to lose my virginity to my boyfriend who was very patient and extremely kind. I couldn't have picked a better boy.I knew beforehand I would experience some pain and wasn't worried- it's normal. I used protection (spermicidal condoms and lube) and tried missionary first- which really hurt. I didn't really worry too much about it though, because I'm sure it was normal. But later on, it continued to hurt- mostly when leaving my vagina and not so much entering it. The pain I felt originated from the area of my vagina on the outside- where it's closer to my bum.
But last last night when I got home, I was worried about how sore I was and decided to check myself.
It almost looks as if I've torn that bottom outside area- and I've read on either sites that it could be for many reasons, some being a large penis (I think my boyfriend is average), a lack of lube, or me not bring turned on- or rape cases.
It hurts to pee a little bit.
I'm just wondering- should I be worried? Will it get better, and has this happened to anyone else?
Remember, I'm not asking about the whole hymen thing. I'm asking about the tearing.
Thank you so much for any advice, or your input.
But last last night when I got home, I was worried about how sore I was and decided to check myself.
It almost looks as if I've torn that bottom outside area- and I've read on either sites that it could be for many reasons, some being a large penis (I think my boyfriend is average), a lack of lube, or me not bring turned on- or rape cases.
It hurts to pee a little bit.
I'm just wondering- should I be worried? Will it get better, and has this happened to anyone else?
Remember, I'm not asking about the whole hymen thing. I'm asking about the tearing.
Thank you so much for any advice, or your input.
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