well alright so last week tuesday I lost my virginity and I've been freaking out ever since...
i stand about 5'0 and im 117 pounds and my boyfriend is about 6'2 and lol i dont know how much he weighs, but the point is i'm a very tiny girl and he has a very big guy with a big member and we desided to have sex and it wouldnt fit at first so we used my hand lotion and got it in. it didn't hurt so much as when we were having sex and the day afterwards I seemed ok except for i was really sore and swollen. Then it got really irritated and was itching and burning like it felt really dry so I got vaginal moisturizer and its stopped now but its still a little sore and irritated.
I have a little hurting in my lower abdomen where my fallopian tube is on the left side and I dunno... It's just my boyfriend is a lot older then I am and we havnt actually been dating a long time and I never asked how many people he's slept with... also I was reading most STDs have no symptoms and I'm just freaking out... Cuz this website said PID has abdominal pain... and if that goes untreated women become sterile.
Is this normal to feel that way??
i stand about 5'0 and im 117 pounds and my boyfriend is about 6'2 and lol i dont know how much he weighs, but the point is i'm a very tiny girl and he has a very big guy with a big member and we desided to have sex and it wouldnt fit at first so we used my hand lotion and got it in. it didn't hurt so much as when we were having sex and the day afterwards I seemed ok except for i was really sore and swollen. Then it got really irritated and was itching and burning like it felt really dry so I got vaginal moisturizer and its stopped now but its still a little sore and irritated.
I have a little hurting in my lower abdomen where my fallopian tube is on the left side and I dunno... It's just my boyfriend is a lot older then I am and we havnt actually been dating a long time and I never asked how many people he's slept with... also I was reading most STDs have no symptoms and I'm just freaking out... Cuz this website said PID has abdominal pain... and if that goes untreated women become sterile.
Is this normal to feel that way??
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While your irritation could be the result of an STD, it's most likely from the hand lotion you used as lube. The vagina is a very sensitive organ and putting lotion in it is most likely where the irritation is coming from. The soreness is probably just a result of forcing his penis inside of you (regardless of his size, it'll fit if you relax) while your vaginal muscles were tensed. The freaking out is also a common occurrence when someone has sex before they are ready. Before you ever have sex you should know your birth control method (hopefully you used one other then pulling out, because that isn't reliable), your partner's sexual history, and all of your sexual questions should be answered, such as "Does this person have an STD?". What's done is done, you need to sit down with him now and have this talk. Then wait until you are truely ready to have sex again, if he's worth keeping he'll respect your decision.
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