Virgin using dildo?

Okay so I just tried it out and trust me...it stings. Though what's to expect when it's stretching. Just inch in more and if it hurts too much then take it out. That's what I did. Though I just kept trying until I noticed that I had succeeded with almost all of it. Still hurt, but at least I got the big step out of the way. Use it like a legit dildo and count to about 20. If it's still uncomfortable then remove it. Afterwards just try it out again a day later or something like that.

I'm 16 and I lost my virginity when I was 13 to a much older guy living I lived, it started when I initiated contact when I started sneeking up and grabbing his penis, or sat on his lap, he got aroused and one night I asked him to buy me a vibrator, we went online I picked it out and he ordered it, when it arrived I asked him out to use it, I already knew by watching online videos, I wanted him to use it on me, so one night I was alone with him, he was watching tv in his room and I joined him, well I started rubbing his penis and got brave and put my hand down his pants, he didn't try an resist me, so I pulled it out, and started jerking him off, I knew he wouldn't last long and I wanted it to be special, so I started giving him a blowjob and kept going till he poped and I swallowed. I jumped up and said my turn I want you to take my virginity, he started slow I was dripping wet but he wouldn't penetrate me, just clitoral stimulation with the vibrator and his fingers, well I started to have my very first orgasm and begged him to pop my cherry, he said you want the vibrator or the real thing, I yelled f**k me, he pushed the vibrator all the way inside me I felt no pain but it was a tight fit, I said give me the real thing and he willingly put all 10 inches of himself in me with still no pain, we did it for 20 minutes till he blew his load, good thing I was already on birth control, but never any pain or blood, little sore the next day when we did it again but in about 2 weeks no soreness or anything but our pleasure. I'm now 16 and he is still my first guy.

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wow thanks so much

This isn’t something you should worry about! Just think about it — there are people who have been having frequent sex for YEARS and their partners still enjoy them. You’ll be okay :) and if a man says you’re too stretched out, perhaps it’s because he’s smaller than average, which is fine, but don’t let it affect your esteem or confidence