Is I am a virgin? I only use a dildo but never had sex with before.

Yes you are definitely still a virgin. It was just like masturbation.

Yes, you're still a virgin. you only lose your v-card when you have sex with someone else.. It was just masturbatio.

Still a virgin as you haven't.had sex. You may or may not bleed. Lots of virgins don't bleed the first time. I didn't. Bleeding is not a sign of virginity. Neither is an intact hymen. All the best.

Hi, I will tell you about me. I kinda think you are asking about the state of your hymen.

I did not really have any ideals about waiting till married - I am not religious or something like that - but I also did not have men running after me. So I used a dildo some several times. More than you indicate for sure - one I tried was even rather big.. but I figured it would never go in no matter how excited cause it hurt too much.

Later I asked my doctor and you can do the same. You are 22? Idk where you are from, but you should the be legally full adult. I think you can go to normal check-up, make appointments and find out quite on your own. Simply explain and as a women's doctor and have her tell you if you still have the hymen.

I had mine still there until I met my man and made love with him.

Yes my vagina was open, but ALSO the hymen still remained there unbroken. Go figure. Maybe it stretched but did not break. I can not explain that. But I have doctors papers to show the fact. I still had the hymen there. No 'repairs' done on it - yes used dildos several times and still remained a virgin, with the hymen included. (Makes me wonder if some women will remain that way even if there is sex with a man - which could explain some pains felt while making love? I do not know for the fact, just wonder - but that was not the question here.)

I do not remember much any bleeding though when we did then make love.. when he took my virginity, so to speak. Actually in all it was really pleasant, almost totally no pain. Well he IS the image of gentle too.

But that said. To play with a toy or two does not experience make - even if it does give you bit of knowledge on what you like or how - bonus to be able to tell that.

I know this post is few months old - but I'll answer as it was fresh. (In case it still might be.) So I will tell you also that there is quite a change in the emotional world of anyone I suppose - when the moment of sexual intimacy begins. Maybe more so the later it takes - or who am I to tell. Idk how it would have been if it started earlier for me - but I was past 30 - and I found my full body image change. Suddenly the person looking at me from a mirror was much more pretty - and that is just a small example. I also went through questions like 'how to tell him I want to make love' - with out doing 'the cave-woman' = 'my man - bed now - sex NOW'.(Does not work like that with my man - I think men aren't as easy as people claim for them to be - or then mine just especially likes to see me shyly try to invent ideas.)

Ok - I still know how to blush, but as it should be obvious - as I did remain a virgin that long - I am not most natural person to go into expressing my hopes or needs in this way. The point though is that as he is more experienced than me with a relationship prior to us, badly failed though - he has had time to develop more self assured perspective on his sexual mind set. It can feel rather scary a challenge too. And as it is so - one might need to work through a few obstacles even after the first time. I think best is to never let anything of this nature - question - insecurity - anything like that to grow too huge, or then it will be harder and harder to solve.

Further though - it is not really us - random people online - who can tell you if you still are virgin or not. In my OPINION you are virgin because you do not have experience with a man - NO MATTER the state of your hymen. But apparently the hymen may still exist, which I can not say for sure - in my case it did. In case you really need to find out if you have the hymen, you should go to see a gynecologist - ask for a woman if you feel more secure like that.