Ok so i need some help trying to figure out when i got pregnant. I know it sounds horrible but me and my boyfriend had broke up for a week we had been havin sex everyday until i had sex with a old friend on Dec 7,2012 my LMP was Nov 23,2012 i had sex with my boyfriend Nov 26,27,28,29,30, Dec1,2,8,10,12,14,15 and so on of Dec really i been having sex with my boyfriend everyday except Dec 7. Now im pregnant i had implantation bleeding on the Dec20 for half a day very light. At first i thought my period was just stuck but on dec 24 i took a test and it was positive. Im so scared because i dOnt want a child by the one night stand man. Can somebody please give me answers ASAP PLEASEEEE.The computer says that my ovulation date was DEC 7 WHICH IS SO SCARY TO ME
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Hi Melanie,
You are going to need a DNA test.
You don't get pregnant immediately. It can take several days for fertilization and implantation to occur. Normally you ovulate between days 11 and 16 of your cycle. No test of ANY kind can tell you exactly when you conceived.
Sperm can remain viable for about 5 days.
It can really be either man. Yes, the odds favor it being your boyfriends but there is the possibility that it was the other guy.
Good luck.
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Thanks for replying can you tell me if there is anyway that i could have been pregnant before my LMP on Nov 23?? Do you think i should just abort since im not sure who the father is?? could i have really got pregnat on the 7th of Dec and had implantation on the 20th thats only 13 days apart i didnt know people could miss a period that quick after sex? Thanks for your help
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Are you stupid or what? Why in the world would you kill your child because you don't no who the father is! Things like that disgust me! see there women like me who want children but miscarry and then there are girls like you who wanna abort their child because they were sleeping with different men and can't determine the father if you really don't want it give it up for adoption to a couple who do want children but can't conceive aborting a child is just a selfish thing to do! The only cases i find acceptable to abort a child is if it was rape or incest! All i have to say is grow up and think before you act or you will suffer the consequences !!
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Sorry if I made you mad!! My due date is Aug 30 2013 if you want to come get the baby. I dont smoke or drink so the baby should be healthy. I do have a fulltime job working with elderly people I hope that doesnt be too much stress on the baby. Its not that i dont want it im jus scared thats its not my bf and thats makes me so sad and i was told after i miscarried 3 years ago that i couldnt have kids so all this is a surprise to me that im pregnant . I have been having unprotected sex for 3 years now and all of a sudden im pregnant. Do you kind of understand me now?
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Well that is great you need to take GOOD care of yourself! Listen to me please whether or not if it is his or the other guys! You should be excited that you get to experience the pregnancy especially being told you can't conceive! you should be happier than ever i sadly had a miscarriage at 5 months pregnant my sons heartbeat just stopped due to something didn't grow right with the nueral tube i was devastated that happened! I would be more than happy to adopt a child. And what you need to do is sit with the both of them at different time if needed to and explain to them what is going on with everything and if your boyfriend really truely care than he will understand
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Melanie,
Your timing, to get pregnant, was perfect. The Implantation timing was about right as well.
If your last period was normal, like all your others, then it is very unlikely you were pregnant then. You can have bleeding if you were pregnant, but it is not the same as your period.
Only a DNA test can tell. You can't pinpoint EXACT dates/times.
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Thanks alot for your support now you got me over here crying :( im so sorry for your lost.
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ok thanks for all of the info you gave me. is there a way to do a dna while your pregnant ?
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You're welcome Melanie.
It can be done via amniocentesis, but there are risks. Usually it is done after birth.
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Don't cry hun that wasn't my intentions at all! I would just really hate to hear you had an abortion and later down the road regret it and grieve over it its never good to take a life of an innocent baby becuause a mistake think about that okay its not good . You should look at this pregnancy as a blessing , that you were blessed enough to conceive something so beautiful in life yes people get morning sickness and go through pains espically delivery its hard I'm not going to tell you it was easy but after all that and you hold YOUR child in your arms its like nothing else matters. I know I had to give birth to my dead son and held him for just a few minutes but I could look at him and know that he's watching me and his father and looking at it now I never really prayed or tried to talk to my son but every night I vow to do that because I love and miss him so much
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