hi this is millay, about two weeks back i attended a church in for the first where i live, when i entered i saw a girl who is in the worship team and i fell in love with her right away. I thought its just a temporally feeling that will just pass on and ignored it because it happens to us guys most of the time. I also don't need to be in a relationship or give love to anyone because i'm chasing my dreams and another reason is i had painful break ups before. days passed by but but the love for her grew bigger and i got signs that point that i must talk to her. i was too scared and am still scared of her bacause she is very spiritually and loves God so much, the pastor also discourages youth dating in the church. I then decided to make an audio of about 8 minutes telling her about how i feel this past weekend and gave it to her, i explained my feelings to her and my intentions for her because for the first time in my life i think she is what i have been looking for. the problem is she has not replied yet,is it too early?do you think she will reply?i gave her the audio on saturday night. i am very strssed and have stopped from yesterday to attend a church because i can't stop thinking about her, thats very strange because i don't love easily. Is it normal to love someone like this while you not even in a relationship with her? the more i see her is the more i think we can be perfect together. before i met her i was very happy focusing on my dreams and she took my attention, now i have this uncomfortable feeling that i can't erase. Do you think she could be the one for me? she knows that i am a very good guy and i met her and gave her some transport money out of the goodness of my heart...you can just tell me on how must i forget her thats what i need now because its like all things have stopped in my life...help please...