anonymous wrote:
Everyones body is different, we all start at different times. Although your body may appear mature enough for your period, it's not ready yet on the inside.
Your mood swings are normal, I was severely depressed before I started, to the point where I considered suicide many times. Then a few nights before I started(I just started Tuesday night) I snapped out of it. Something that had happened that day got me thinking "if I killed myself I'd never be able to experience that again" and then I immediately thought "WHOA, suicide?!?! I'm crazy! I could NEVER kill myself!!!" and I'm fine again.
So don't let the mood swings scare you, and if you get depressed, keep in mind that that's all that's happening, your body is preparing for its menstrual cycle and it releases different endorphines which cause mood swings.
And the brown discharge is completely normal. It's a pre-period sort of thing, I got it about a month before I started my period.
Also, so your underwear and possibly skirt don't get ruined, wear pantyliners. They keep your underwear from getting dirty from the discharge and it'll also keep your underwear protected in case you get a surprise period.
And when you do start your period, just keep in mind that your mom went through this too and she can help you, and say "mom, I started," and she'll know what you mean. that's what I did. Well, I actually said "mom I *think* I started" cause I wasn't actually completely sure cause I had no cramps, but my sister said her period started like that, too, and she eventually got cramps.
I hope my rambling helped you! ;)
Hi everybody,
Elsie isnt my real name btw :)
Yeah, everyone is saying about this white stuff and i have been getting thats for weeelllll over a year!
Recently, i have also been getting really angry and sad, somtimes im crying and punching the walls,pains where your period pains are, and sometimes thay are quite painfull :/
I get some brownish discharge stuff but i really dont think its blood. Im going to be 14 this year and, my body is quite mature so i would have expected to have started by now!
I'm worried incase it comes in school, and i carry a pad with me anyway, but im terrified incase it leaks onto my skirt cos i wont be wearing it!!
And one more thing, whatwould i tell my mum wheen i do start?!
thankyoo
Everyones body is different, we all start at different times. Although your body may appear mature enough for your period, it's not ready yet on the inside.
Your mood swings are normal, I was severely depressed before I started, to the point where I considered suicide many times. Then a few nights before I started(I just started Tuesday night) I snapped out of it. Something that had happened that day got me thinking "if I killed myself I'd never be able to experience that again" and then I immediately thought "WHOA, suicide?!?! I'm crazy! I could NEVER kill myself!!!" and I'm fine again.
So don't let the mood swings scare you, and if you get depressed, keep in mind that that's all that's happening, your body is preparing for its menstrual cycle and it releases different endorphines which cause mood swings.
And the brown discharge is completely normal. It's a pre-period sort of thing, I got it about a month before I started my period.
Also, so your underwear and possibly skirt don't get ruined, wear pantyliners. They keep your underwear from getting dirty from the discharge and it'll also keep your underwear protected in case you get a surprise period.
And when you do start your period, just keep in mind that your mom went through this too and she can help you, and say "mom, I started," and she'll know what you mean. that's what I did. Well, I actually said "mom I *think* I started" cause I wasn't actually completely sure cause I had no cramps, but my sister said her period started like that, too, and she eventually got cramps.
I hope my rambling helped you! ;)
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like i haven started yet but i have had the white syicky stuff for AGES. y mates at schhol hav all started and i havent. but not to worry they all sit there with cramps whilst i go mad and have fun. :O o.O ;-)
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Hi, Its ''elsie'' again :-)
My mood swings are getting worse you know...
the slightest thing make me on the edge of tears, and when that doesnt happen, im just sitting there and feeling upset for no real reason.
Also, i have a good night sleep every nigh (approx 9.30=7am) and i am exhausted and nearly falling asleep during lessons and when i do get back into bed, i fall asleep within about 7 mins and sleep right the way through. this has been happening for about 2-3 weeks? does this have anything to do with my period?
thanks :S
My mood swings are getting worse you know...
the slightest thing make me on the edge of tears, and when that doesnt happen, im just sitting there and feeling upset for no real reason.
Also, i have a good night sleep every nigh (approx 9.30=7am) and i am exhausted and nearly falling asleep during lessons and when i do get back into bed, i fall asleep within about 7 mins and sleep right the way through. this has been happening for about 2-3 weeks? does this have anything to do with my period?
thanks :S
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My mood swings were exactly like that. I'd be sitting on my bed, listening to Ingrid Michaelson and writing and then all of a sudden I felt verrrry gloomy. It's normal. :]
I'm not sure about the sleeping and exhaustion though, because I usually sleep at like 3 AM and get up at noon. But you should try googling if exhaustion can be caused if your period is coming. And you could ask your mom or friend or sister or anyone you're close to, really, if they went through the same thing.
I'm not sure about the sleeping and exhaustion though, because I usually sleep at like 3 AM and get up at noon. But you should try googling if exhaustion can be caused if your period is coming. And you could ask your mom or friend or sister or anyone you're close to, really, if they went through the same thing.
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well, i researched it and it is usually caused by very heavy periods, but i havnt even started yet. do you think this might mean when i DO start, that it will be aheavy one???? :(
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me 2!!! im gettin all dis white stuff and me and ma cuz r alwayz tlkin bout it smtimes i get a lil wet and wen i go to da bathroom there's nothing there !! its sooo anoyin wen will it happen??? heeelppp plzzz!! :'( ? ! o.O :-)
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Yeah! i feel all wet and think '' oh here we go'' and i get to the toilets and im like..wtf?
you know?
you know?
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Okay ladies. i know how ya'll feel, ive have the white sticky stuff for atleast 6 months now, and that white sticky stuff is called DISCHARGE. and it come out of your vagina. anyways i have some solutions to maybe get your period going and maybe youll start sooner: drink alot of green tea, parsley tea, milk, and put a heating pad on your lady parts/ovary/vaginal erea and it will stimulate your period alittle. you can also soak in a hot bath. dont stress about it because you will postpone your period even more by stressing about it. so just relax, try some of my suggestions, and let it just happen when it happens. 8-|
also a way to tell when your going to start is about 6 months to a year after you get dicharge ( white sticky stuff ) and your will start to get light/ heavy cramps depending on the person. and your breast will start to develope, and you will have pubic hair. hope this helps you girls:)
p.s i havent had my period yet either :-(
also a way to tell when your going to start is about 6 months to a year after you get dicharge ( white sticky stuff ) and your will start to get light/ heavy cramps depending on the person. and your breast will start to develope, and you will have pubic hair. hope this helps you girls:)
p.s i havent had my period yet either :-(
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It could mean it's going to be heavy, but your period won't be "normal" for the first year, maybe longer.
By "normal," I mean the flow will be changing and sometimes it's longer or shorter than a month between periods, etc. Some girls' periods are always changing, and they never get used to it, which really isn't a big deal, just wear pantyliners when you're not on your period just in case you start unexpectedly and then put a pad on.
By "normal," I mean the flow will be changing and sometimes it's longer or shorter than a month between periods, etc. Some girls' periods are always changing, and they never get used to it, which really isn't a big deal, just wear pantyliners when you're not on your period just in case you start unexpectedly and then put a pad on.
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i want to have my period so bad too im 10 and i have discharge pimples headaches cramps moddy hair down there and armpit hair. i cant wait to start
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i havent had my period but i have discharge .discharge is when ur vagina cleanses itself before the period.iv also had breast devolopment armpit hair and pubic hair(vagina hair). cramps im not really sure it feels like but i guess its a sharp pain. i am 12 and i just want to no if there is a way to speed up my period.ive heard green tea can make it speed up and stress postpones it.after drinking green tea how many more days will it be until u finally get blood. o.O :-| :$
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i know same thing with me and im like WHAT THE FOU!! JUST START AND GET IT THE FOU OVER WITH sheesh just start you little betch of a thing jeez if i met mother nature id betchslap her in the face and call her a deck a betch and a shetbag!!! :-S
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Interesting to me that your step sister got menus when she was 16 years old. I agree with you that everyone is different.
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~ i am only 12 i got these weird sticky white stuff on my undies everytime i go to the bathroom! i hate it! and now is like, all white and starting to turn darker and darker :-( i am sooo scared that i might get it durning a class and had to stand up and go to the bathroom x_x" when i told my mom about this she gave me these pads and told me to put it on just IN CASE if i get it, so i can just change it in the bathroom. alot of my friends got theirs when they were only 10. and i am the only one without it. and also, my breast is still developing and it kinda feels weird when you are next to your "girl friends" who already have a huge chest and got their period already. i really want mine to start but i also think tis really weird!!! and i dont know why but i also started masturbating ever since the white stuff came out, i think it felt so good.... but will masturbation make my period never come? please help and give advices!!! :'( :$ :-( %-)
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