Hello. So I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend for a bit. I'm ready to have sex with him. He and I both have had sex before so it didn't seem like a huge deal to me. But when we tried.. we found out my hymen is still intact. Im going to assume its because my ex lacked in the length department when it came to his penis. But my boyfriend and I have tried twice now and it just hurts way too much. He freaks out because my eyes start tearing up so he pulls away. I love him and I know he loves me. I know I'm ready. But it hurts so bad.. any advice?