Hi.
I'm a 15 year old. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, who I had been with for 1 year. The reason was because he was too controlling and I wasn't happy with him any more. Whenever we had arguments he would always bring up my past about a boy who tried to kiss me on the lips (I'm a virgin and a strong Muslim- I haven't even kissed a boy). This really got me, it would make me so depressed because I always felt like it was my fault, like I let this happen. Yet, this wasn't it. The boy tried to kiss me but I pushed him, so it wasn't really a kiss I don't think our lips even touched properly. So my ex would constantly bring this up because I had told him, I am very loyal, so I thought he should of known my past. ANYWAY, so I would share everything with him because he was like my best friend. I told him about how I was afraid if I didn't have a hymen (in my culture, if you don't bleed while having sex on your wedding night, you aren't considered as a virgin) this thought really scared me. When I first told him, he said to me that he trusted me and that no matter what he knew I was a virgin, because I don't believe in sex before marriage.
When I was breaking up with him he called me really horrible names - slag, prostitute, w****, player, turned on b***h etc. All of these disgusting names he called me really hurt me, and I have been crying for days because I keep asking myself: What have I ever done to him, that would make him think this way of me?
Yesterday, I text him for the first time in 2 months because I really needed support, and he was the only person I had ever trusted. My mum and dad are ill, my dad will have a surgery on Monday coming up, which really worries and upsets me. So when I spoke to him he was very mean and didn't support me. Instead he called me a dog. And also he said, "What are you going to do when you don't bleed during sex? Tell your husband that you fell? Haha, funny. id**t, nobody will believe that you're a virgin."
After this, I cried for 35 minutes, and still have very sore eyes.. I am young, and I need guidance. I am a virgin, but what if I don't bleed? Why does he think this way of me? Am I a total mess who is an id**t? I really need help :'( Please, someone.. Anyone.. I am near enough thinking about suicide...
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Its so easy to say this however my ex has affected me so much its unbelievable.. :'(
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Please do not call or write back to that boy, is not good for you. Virginity is a treasure, take care, in my culture, the woman should remain a virginity for marriage and hymen should be intact, must bleed on the wedding night, people from other cultures do not understand and do not respect this. if you need a boyfriend I suggest you search one within your own culture. How old are you?
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In your first sex time Pain could be so intense. Are you a guy or a girl? How old are you?
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I am 32 years old and still virgin ,I am a christian ,I think your body and mind is your right .I met a lot of guy in my life ,first time they interest in me but when I told them i will not have sex before marry ,all of them gone ,I feel sad but I prey with God ,I will wait for my right man .You are so young ,when you grow up ,you will find a lot of man ,you can choose your right man .Although you really love and feel sad with your ex- boy friend ,I want to tell you something,today he do not believe in your virgin ,tomorrow he still do not believe too and if you can return lover relationship with him again and get marry ,one day when you miss understand in something ,he will said you do not virgin so prey with your God and waiting for your right man ,I prey for you and wish you will strong in yourself,make confidence in yourself although all people around you do not believe in you but you know who you are.God bless you
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