I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and my biggest question is, why do I feel ill when I’m around him? I start getting headaches when he’s coming home or when he is close by and when he’s around me. I feel ill, it’s like if he drains my energy away from me - I start getting headaches, sometimes I feel drained, other days My stomach starts to hurt or Ill feel stressed. Other times my legs/feet/calves or another part of my body would hurt. Only when I’m around him! Don’t get me wrong, I really love him and want to be with him buts it’s killing me trying to figure out what it is that is happening. When we argue, I get this sharp pain near my stomach and I have had it for some time now. I have went to the doctor to get it checked out but they can’t find the source to the pain. Sometimes I cry for no reason. My sleep goes away at times. Now before we moved in together, I was alright and now as time goes by my symptoms get worse. Is it all in my mind or what could it be? Could it be stress?