I'm expecting my period sometime this week, but I just wanted to some feedback on if I REALLY am safe from pregnancy.
Before and after the sex, i was not eating much, drinking much, sleeping much. so this could explain any "symptoms" i had.
ALSO: I have not been to the doctor about this issue, but I am almost 100% sure I have IBS (irritable bowl syndrome), which could throw me off about whether the bloating, constipation, diarrhea, and other pains are a symptom of itself, pregnancy, or premenstrual pain. I have had this on and off since I was a kid.
THE DATES
DEC. 11 - had unprotected sex, partner not even close to finishing because i told him i didnt wanna go too far, pulled out after a minute.
DEC. 14 - took ECP (Next Choice), both tablets in one dose. i know, i shouldnt have waited 3 days to take it...
DEC. 19 or 20 - vaginal bleeding started. seemed too heavy to be implantation bleeding, but i read that there are rare cases of heavy implantation bleeding. started out light, then became heavy, really red just like my normal period. changed pads every few hours or so, but not a lot of bleeding during the night like the usual. this lasted for 3 to 4 days while my normal period usually lasts 5-8 days. after it stopped was when i started noticing symptoms/ signs like darker areolas. possibly in my head from stress and not taking good care of myself?
JAN. 4 or 5 - possibly ovulated? felt like i was experiencing Mittelschmerz (middle pain), but then again, stress and not taking care of my body. this sounds stupid, but in wanting to keep my abdominal from enlarging (pregnancy symptom) i ate less than usual. paranoia has been eating me ALIVE.
JAN. 8 to 12 - Took 2 home pregnancy tests (First Response) during this week. Both taken early morning, so the first urination of the day. both came out negative. SCARED OF FALSE NEGATIVES.
Now JAN. 16 - can't tell if it's premenstrual symptoms or pregnancy symptoms or again all in my head. I'm expecting my period this week, but i know that it can come a week late.
I would appreciate it so much if I got feedback from you all! I am very paranoid, and I have learned my lesson the hard way!
Before and after the sex, i was not eating much, drinking much, sleeping much. so this could explain any "symptoms" i had.
ALSO: I have not been to the doctor about this issue, but I am almost 100% sure I have IBS (irritable bowl syndrome), which could throw me off about whether the bloating, constipation, diarrhea, and other pains are a symptom of itself, pregnancy, or premenstrual pain. I have had this on and off since I was a kid.
THE DATES
DEC. 11 - had unprotected sex, partner not even close to finishing because i told him i didnt wanna go too far, pulled out after a minute.
DEC. 14 - took ECP (Next Choice), both tablets in one dose. i know, i shouldnt have waited 3 days to take it...
DEC. 19 or 20 - vaginal bleeding started. seemed too heavy to be implantation bleeding, but i read that there are rare cases of heavy implantation bleeding. started out light, then became heavy, really red just like my normal period. changed pads every few hours or so, but not a lot of bleeding during the night like the usual. this lasted for 3 to 4 days while my normal period usually lasts 5-8 days. after it stopped was when i started noticing symptoms/ signs like darker areolas. possibly in my head from stress and not taking good care of myself?
JAN. 4 or 5 - possibly ovulated? felt like i was experiencing Mittelschmerz (middle pain), but then again, stress and not taking care of my body. this sounds stupid, but in wanting to keep my abdominal from enlarging (pregnancy symptom) i ate less than usual. paranoia has been eating me ALIVE.
JAN. 8 to 12 - Took 2 home pregnancy tests (First Response) during this week. Both taken early morning, so the first urination of the day. both came out negative. SCARED OF FALSE NEGATIVES.
Now JAN. 16 - can't tell if it's premenstrual symptoms or pregnancy symptoms or again all in my head. I'm expecting my period this week, but i know that it can come a week late.
I would appreciate it so much if I got feedback from you all! I am very paranoid, and I have learned my lesson the hard way!
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The only way you could be pregnant is if he cumed in you. I wouldn't worry about it your probably NOT PREGNANT.
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But I've heard that even if your partner does not ejaculate you can still get pregnant?
Or is it only if he has ejaculated before the sex?
I've heard A LOT of mixed opinions.
Or is it only if he has ejaculated before the sex?
I've heard A LOT of mixed opinions.
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Hi kim17,
You are correct. You can, in fact, get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. I would advise you to take two more tests this week. One right away and one in a few more days. A pregnancy test just picks up hCG in your urine. Even if you go to the doctor, they'll give you a test that measure's the same levels. Due to the fact that you took the morning after pill, you haven't missed your period yet, if these test both come back negative, you will likely get your period in a few days.
Remember, having sex is a grown up decision and if you are choosing to have sex you have to behave like an adult. Your boyfriend should always use a condom and you should get on birth control to prevent any scares like this again. Most states have clinics that are free or cheap for teenagers. Get on birth control ASAP. If your afraid that your parents will find out choose a birth control that they won't ever see such as Depo or the NuvaRing.
Best wishes!
You are correct. You can, in fact, get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. I would advise you to take two more tests this week. One right away and one in a few more days. A pregnancy test just picks up hCG in your urine. Even if you go to the doctor, they'll give you a test that measure's the same levels. Due to the fact that you took the morning after pill, you haven't missed your period yet, if these test both come back negative, you will likely get your period in a few days.
Remember, having sex is a grown up decision and if you are choosing to have sex you have to behave like an adult. Your boyfriend should always use a condom and you should get on birth control to prevent any scares like this again. Most states have clinics that are free or cheap for teenagers. Get on birth control ASAP. If your afraid that your parents will find out choose a birth control that they won't ever see such as Depo or the NuvaRing.
Best wishes!
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I agree with eurobabe. You shouldn't have unprotected sex, you can get pregnant, STDs, HPV. Do what eurobabe said and take the tests, do them a week apart. it will ease your mind. Good luck with everything :)
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