Hello. I'm reaching out because I'm confused. I'm almost 30 I've had mostly serious relationships in my life. 4 three year plus relationships. I've been single for the last year. Each one has lead to leaving me and me being very hurt. Anyways since this last one leaving me I've had a problem getting hard when it counts. I have no problem on my own. I have been very attracted to others but when it comes down to the moment I can't get going. I have even had my buddy offer His gf up to me but still couldn't get hard. I've been seeing this girl for the last 2 months and I really like her. But I've only been able to get myself going 2 times and shes getting upset. Which is upstandable. Is it me and in my head or do I need to worry?
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Hi Donald,
If you get hard on your own it's in your head.
It could be due to the failed relationships. You could try talking to a counselor about it.
Do you have fears over intimacy? Getting hurt again? Do you think sex is what caused the breakups? If you answered yes to any of these, even slightly, you need to talk to someone.
Good luck.
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