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In the part of world I am living in, let's just say that paid sex is quite a common phenomenon and often a requisite for business purposes. The girls providing sex services here are very skillful, and competition drives them to keep on finding innovative ways to please the customers. I'd say I have had my fair share of what the industry has to offer. My question is that, having been constantly served by professionals, will it make me less likely to be aroused by regular women? I am having difficulty having sex with my wife. We have a great relationship together, and as time goes by and we share more experience living together, I think we are only getting closer. The problem is that when it comes to sex, I just don't feel like doing with her any more. I thought it was because of reduced sex drive, but I often find myself eager to try to find the next massage house that offers mind-blowing sex. And when I am there, I never have any problems getting an erection. Another thing I recently experienced is that once I get an erection, it may not hold for long if there is a period of inactivity. This period of inactivity often happens when I need the time to put the condom on. Sometimes the service girls need to reach into their purses to get the condom out, and I could lose my erection right then. Am I in trouble? How can I "want to" do it with my wife again?

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It sounds like you need to spice up the relationship with your wife. What is it that these 'professionals' do that your wife doesn't do? Work together to become better at pleasing each other. Show her what you like. Be a little kinky. Maybe go lingerie shopping. Stop having sex with everyone else for starters, so you'll have more of a 'want' to have sex with her as well. Do you still love her and everything? Because I think personally sex is better when you have that emotional connection with someone as well as the sexual chemistry. Just keep working on it.
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yes, there is nothing more boring as you have a dull sex life. usually, what happens when you have the same partner for some years, and I do respect that - because you can always spice up your sex life by finding some other erogenous zones for men. and the good thing is that you can do everything together, you can seek another zone together with your wife. this is nothing be ashamed of, it is perfectly normal for you to experiment with your wife to see what fits you. First, you should get out from your comfort zone and have sex somewhere else, not just in your bed or your house. 

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