I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 23 YEARS NO SEX LIFE ALL THIS TIME MY HUSBAND SUCKS IN BED NO FORE PLAY WANT TO TRY ANAL
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Have you discussed this with him? Or tried to spice it up and come on to him I use to call my husband one hit wonder! He got off and I wondered how he did it so quick! I think most women would agree we all want foreplay and the romance we don't just want sex. If after 25 yrs of not even having sex in different positions or places its about time to try it! Have you ever watched porn as a couple men seem interested in it let him get a little turned on and shut it off show him your a little tiger wanting out of cage!! If that doesn't do it highly recommend marriage counseling being married that long you should be able to work through it! May I suggest buy a dildo and let him watch you use it please yourself and he just might decide he wants a piece of that action!
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Tell him you want to try anal. He may want to as well. You could use sex toys, masturbate together, watch porn... there are so many options. You need to talk to him about this, not strangers.
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You need to give some more background. If you have been married for 25 years with no sex life all this time, why do you want to try anal? If you have no sex life, before what would the fore-play be?
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PHYSICAL INTIMACY
Most people are familiar with physical intimacy or think it’s the only kind of intimacy. Physical intimacy can include sexual intimacy, which is an integral part of a healthy couple’s relationship.
However, physical intimacy also includes affectionate touching, such as holding hands, hugs, kisses, and cuddling. In fact, affectionate touch is closely related to high relationship satisfaction and plays a vital role in building feelings of closeness between two people.
We all have different needs when it comes to physical intimacy, and you can ask your partner about their needs if you need more clarification. Physical intimacy can change over time and wax and wane through different seasons – the most important piece is keeping open communication to ensure you both get your needs met.
EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Emotional intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner are willing and able to connect on a deep, meaningful emotional/feelings level. It’s more than just saying how you feel: emotional intimacy requires trust and willingness to be open and vulnerable in expressing deeper thoughts, feelings, and needs.
One way to connect emotionally is to share about your childhood or something personal (without crossing your boundaries with yourself). It’s essential to practice emotional intimacy outside of moments of crisis so that when something big happens, you and your partner have established enough trust, vulnerability, and awareness to support each other.
This type of intimate self-disclosure is key to building intimacy and closeness in relationships.
INTELLECTUAL INTIMACY
In its simplest form, intellectual intimacy is having a healthy curiosity and learning from each other. Healthy intellectual intimacy is characterized by feeling safe to discuss various topics and share your views and perspectives while being open to different perspectives.
Mutual respect allows you to connect and discuss topics beyond your usual day-to-day rapport, even when your opinions differ. You can practice intellectual intimacy by watching a cerebral film together, reading poetry, or venturing to art museums. Intellectual intimacy doesn’t have to be complex or deeply political – it’s about observing your differences and finding ways to connect.
SPIRITUAL INTIMACY
Spiritual intimacy has many meanings because spirituality is uniquely personal. Generally speaking, spiritual intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner share your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and experiences about religion, spirituality, moral values, life after death, and other related issues.
Spirituality isn’t always about religion, although religious beliefs and practices can be part of one’s spirituality. Spirituality is a broader concept that encompasses your connection to something larger than yourself and the search for meaning in life.
A healthy degree of spiritual intimacy can enhance communication and feelings of connection. If you’re unfamiliar with spiritual intimacy or uncomfortable opening up about your personal beliefs, you and your partner can watch a documentary about spirituality or a specific religion and discuss what you found relatable. Work up to the more complex conversations over time – the goal isn’t to agree entirely but to have a healthy awareness of your partner’s beliefs and to feel safe expressing your own.
SOCIAL INTIMACY
Social intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner share each other’s interests and spend time together as a couple. What kinds of things do you do together? Do you share quality time having fun?
Now, this doesn’t mean doing everything together or always doing your own thing. Social intimacy is about spending time together doing fun things balanced with individual time – you need both. When it comes to togetherness, more isn’t always better, and less isn’t always more.
One great way to build social intimacy is to try something new together. Cooking classes, learning how to dance salsa, trying a new restaurant, or taking a new yoga class together – when you come together on the same playing field with no previous experience, you’re able to be vulnerable and embrace the awkwardness of something new
Most people are familiar with physical intimacy or think it’s the only kind of intimacy. Physical intimacy can include sexual intimacy, which is an integral part of a healthy couple’s relationship.
However, physical intimacy also includes affectionate touching, such as holding hands, hugs, kisses, and cuddling. In fact, affectionate touch is closely related to high relationship satisfaction and plays a vital role in building feelings of closeness between two people.
We all have different needs when it comes to physical intimacy, and you can ask your partner about their needs if you need more clarification. Physical intimacy can change over time and wax and wane through different seasons – the most important piece is keeping open communication to ensure you both get your needs met.
EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Emotional intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner are willing and able to connect on a deep, meaningful emotional/feelings level. It’s more than just saying how you feel: emotional intimacy requires trust and willingness to be open and vulnerable in expressing deeper thoughts, feelings, and needs.
One way to connect emotionally is to share about your childhood or something personal (without crossing your boundaries with yourself). It’s essential to practice emotional intimacy outside of moments of crisis so that when something big happens, you and your partner have established enough trust, vulnerability, and awareness to support each other.
This type of intimate self-disclosure is key to building intimacy and closeness in relationships.
INTELLECTUAL INTIMACY
In its simplest form, intellectual intimacy is having a healthy curiosity and learning from each other. Healthy intellectual intimacy is characterized by feeling safe to discuss various topics and share your views and perspectives while being open to different perspectives.
Mutual respect allows you to connect and discuss topics beyond your usual day-to-day rapport, even when your opinions differ. You can practice intellectual intimacy by watching a cerebral film together, reading poetry, or venturing to art museums. Intellectual intimacy doesn’t have to be complex or deeply political – it’s about observing your differences and finding ways to connect.
SPIRITUAL INTIMACY
Spiritual intimacy has many meanings because spirituality is uniquely personal. Generally speaking, spiritual intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner share your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and experiences about religion, spirituality, moral values, life after death, and other related issues.
Spirituality isn’t always about religion, although religious beliefs and practices can be part of one’s spirituality. Spirituality is a broader concept that encompasses your connection to something larger than yourself and the search for meaning in life.
A healthy degree of spiritual intimacy can enhance communication and feelings of connection. If you’re unfamiliar with spiritual intimacy or uncomfortable opening up about your personal beliefs, you and your partner can watch a documentary about spirituality or a specific religion and discuss what you found relatable. Work up to the more complex conversations over time – the goal isn’t to agree entirely but to have a healthy awareness of your partner’s beliefs and to feel safe expressing your own.
SOCIAL INTIMACY
Social intimacy is the degree to which you and your partner share each other’s interests and spend time together as a couple. What kinds of things do you do together? Do you share quality time having fun?
Now, this doesn’t mean doing everything together or always doing your own thing. Social intimacy is about spending time together doing fun things balanced with individual time – you need both. When it comes to togetherness, more isn’t always better, and less isn’t always more.
One great way to build social intimacy is to try something new together. Cooking classes, learning how to dance salsa, trying a new restaurant, or taking a new yoga class together – when you come together on the same playing field with no previous experience, you’re able to be vulnerable and embrace the awkwardness of something new
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