I have to say that I have never been so angry in my life as in those several situations with my kid. It is really unbelievable how they can destroy your calmness in a second. The only thing I can do then is count to ten before answering to my child. And if you are really angry, go for a walk, always, then return and talk to him/her. Sometimes it helps…
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And yes, there are situations when even that does not have any effect. Having kids and learning about them also means that they are learning from you and so they will realize at one point what are the things that upset you and sometimes use it. I guess they do not use it intentionally, but only when they feel hurt and embarrassed. So, being angry will not solve anything, but nevertheless, you will have to explain where are the boundaries to your kid. The sooner that is learned, the better.
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