Im 14 and gay and there is so much confusion about what is really going on and no answers, am i right and normal and should i book my flight to hell in advance?
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Hi Anonymous,
Gay or straight it's just a label by insensitive jerks. Ignore them. No, you don't need to book a flight to hell.
We're all unique individuals, with our own gifts and talents. Make the best of what you have. At the same time, be careful of those who don't understand.
Good luck!
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If you're 14, and gay and confused about everything going on - you're perfectly normal.
Being gay means being part of a minority. It's up to you how visible you want to be with that. You get to decide when to tell others, who to tell and even why. That's your superpower! :)
I have 2 boys (neither are gay) who just graduated. Some of their friends are gay. Most "came out" in the last year of high school and didn't really have too many issues because they waited until the last year of school to talk about it and their friends really stood up for them.
At 14 it could be more difficult. You have 4 years left of school, and your friends may not be mature enough to really "get" what standing up for a minority means or how to do that.
So guard your heart. People dont' have to know things about you right now.
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