hi guys im 13 years old. why do people call me gay?, just because i have long hair and it looks similars justin biebers hair cut when im perfectly straight i adore girls and everything a straight guy does like, like boobs ,girls ass (perverted i know) but can any one tell them why that they might be doing this?
i forgot to add i dont act gay aswell
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Hi Mate,
They're probably doing it just to get a reaction out of you. Ignore them. Plain and simple they are idiots.
You're better than them, don't forget it!
Hope it helps
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Hi Mate
It makes school tough when some jerks stick a label on you for no reason.
Maybe the one that started the rumour is hoping your gay.
Just be yourself and try not worry about how you’re acting or your haircut if you are trying too hard to show these guys your straight they will wonder about that as well.
If they know they are getting to you they will keep it up try to ignore it or when they say you’re gay you could ask them if they are hoping your gay and just say sorry I’m straight.
It is hard thing to deal with and don’t be afraid to talk to your school councillor or teacher if you need to these guys are jerks and not worth your time or worry.
So be yourself and don’t think you need to act a certain way or change your appearance for these losers when they see they are not getting to you they will move on.
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thanks so much this advice would help when i start school in a week but im sure its going to work.
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Hi
I hope it helps and that things get better for you.
Sometimes the guys that seem to be the most homophobic are actually more concerned about their own sexuality and play these games in an effort to cover up their own issues.
So try not worry about it and don’t feel you need to act a certain way or get a new look your true friends like you for who you are and just the way you are and they are the ones that count not the jerks that bully someone for no reason.
Please always keep in mind that anytime things are not going so well that there is nothing wrong with asking for some help and advice school councillor, teacher and on here as well great places to get some support.
I hope everything works out okay let us know how it goes.
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Mate,
be yourself, I know it's not easy sorrunded with clones who pick on people but as Mike said - very often these people do this becasue they are concerened with their own sexuality so they try to cover up their own issues... you would be surprised how many times :)
Be yourself, they are idiots. Try to sorround yourself with people who care about you, or who respect you for who you are.
It is not easy to find GOOD and honest people but if you have a few friends, consider yourself a very rich person!
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