Was I raped? He continued to have sex with me even after I told him not to

I know that probably if I have to ask then it's probably not but I'm so scared. I am 17 years old and I decided to go over to one of my friends house who is a guy to have sex. My mom didn't obviously know I was going to go over there and do this. We've had sex before once and I've trusted him but this time was way different. He started to kiss me and stuff and this only lasted about a few minutes. Then took my clothes off and started to finger ke at first I had no problem with this, but I didn't think I was turned on enough or wet enough. He then put a condom on and started having sex with me. Wel, it hurt so bad I couldn't stand the pain. I told him to slow down but he wouldn't, so then I just kind of hoped the pain would go away but it wouldn't. I told him that it hurt really bad and he continued. Next we took me and flipped me so I would be on my hands and knees. This position also hurt as bad and i was in so much pain I almost felt like crying. Well have that we kind of stopped just for a second and then told me to lay down on stomach so we could have sex like that, he then asked, "Can I stick it in your butt?" I straight out told him no but then he started having sex with me vaginally. He kept asking me the same question and I replied with "No, it will hurt" he done it anyway after I said not to it was the most painful thing I've ever felt. I told him to stop and he kept repeating why? He finally stopped and then I just told him to let me give him a blowjob so he could finish and it be over. I did not want to get up leave because I was afraid he might do something or tell everyone we had sex. Well then after we done that for a while he said can I put it in without a condom I kept saying no don't which he didn't listen to me. He done it anyway and I'm on birth control but I've missed 3 days before having sex. He continued to have sex with me without a condom even after I told him not to he pulled out about 45 seconds before he came. He came on my stomach and then we ended it and I went home. After the sex my vagina was hurting so bad and I bleed a lot. It's been exactly a week and I've haven't told anyone because I'm afraid they will think it's my fault because I went over there even though it is. I've been having some problems with my vagina and I think I may have an STD but I have been taking antibiotics. I'm just afraid I may come pregnant even though I have been taking my birth control. I don't know if it was my fault since I was the one that went to his house but I'm just scared and I can't tell anyone. I don't want to tell my mom because she would be so angry with me and I'm afraid she would not believe me. I'm just really scared on what to do and I'm not supposed to have my period until another 2  weeks. The antibiotics have kind of got rid of the nasty smelling discharge but I'm not sure it did. I just need some help and I don't want to tell anyone and also the guy is a couple years older than me.