my boyfriend and i have been together over a year and i want to have sex with him, but i am a huge worrywart, i cant get on a pill right now but he says he will "do his business" before and we will use a condom, and he will pull out, so am i worrying way to much
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Yes. You're worrying a lot. Though it would be a good idea to use both a condom and the pill, just using a condom will greatly reduce the risk of pregnancy when used correctly.
Of course, the best form of birth control is abstinance.
Of course, the best form of birth control is abstinance.
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wait a minute...if you're worried, you should probably abstain for now. don't let your boyfriend talk you into anything! if he really loves you and cares about you, he can wait. but like phantom said, the best way to not get pregnant is to remain abstinent. i would think very seriously about whether or not you're ready to have sex. your worries may not just be about birth control, but about something underlying. just be cautious and use great discretion in whatever you do. do not ignore what your conscience is saying, you may save yourself some heartache and trouble.
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its not that im worried about being with him and this is somthing that i really do want, im just trying to be as safe as possable until i can get back on the pill
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