Being pressured and not knowing what to do

First of all, is it just a close guy friend and not somebody you think you truly love? Don't rush into having sex just because you are being pressured, because later in life, you will probably want to lose your virginity to somebody you really love, and not just because of being pressured to do so. After solving who you want to have sex with in the future, and you are interested in being sexually active, as a girl, you just need to learn to relax. It will hurt the first time you have sex, and your hymen will most likely burst, causing blood to come out. Just make sure you guys have a lot of foreplay so you get really aroused and loosen up so it will not hurt as much, even though it will still hurt. MOST importantly, make sure the guy is a person you love, as you do not want to do this kind of thing on a whim, at your age especially.

I definitely agree.  Don't have sex just to have sex.  You need to keep it special and only do it with someone that you're in love with and who makes you feel special.  I don't want to see you regret it down the road.

Sex will hurt the first time for a lot of girls just because it's something different that you're not used to.  Do you masturbate?  Masturbating with a "tool" can help prepare you for sex.  You can PM me if you want.