i lost my virginity to a guy i dont really know and we didnt use protection (but i took the "morning after pill" the next day) he told me he went for a check up 2 months b4 and he didnt have any diseases but the problem is i was peer pressured into it and now my mum is mad at me and i am getting ignored by the guy that i had sex with i just want to know what do i do and i didnt bleed but it really hurt and now im regretting it badly i need help in my situation
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In lots of cases the firs time isn't always gonna be the greatest experience. The guy I first had sex with ignored me too. I was hurt over it, but I survived and I made sure the next guy I had sex with was a keeper, and we feel in love. Your mom won't stay mad at you forever. She was young like you once too and I'm sure has made many of similar mistakes in life. So don't feel guilty. But you should have been more careful. I have been peer pressured into so0o many things. And it's more of less not making the mistake for yourself, and not anyone else. IF your mom knows, go get tested. If he's ignoring you who's to say he didn't lie to you about having a check up 2 months before. And a lot of girls don't bleed their first time. I didn't, and I never have. Do dwell on something you can take back. You'll only end up hurting more than you have to. So don't beat yourself up over it. You will be fine, and I'm sure your a really strong person and can over come this one tiny little mistake that millions of girls make...I know I made the same exact one and regretted it, but I've since then healed from it, and learned from my mistakes. But definitely get checked up that's most important okay...good luck, and if you feel comfortable or if I help in anyway lemme know and gimme some updates...take care- jill
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