Thanks so much! I literally cried while reading that because the thoughts are so realistic, almost lIke you are beyond return. It is insane how you never question anything before getting off the pill. You just feel great. Makes you really appreciate a relationship once feelings of love are lost.
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Like we have a child together and she won't listen to me when I try and show her all the people like you guys going thru the same but she don't listen to me.
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Please help! My girl of 5 years, we have a 4 year old and she is going thru the same thing and doesn't believe it's the meds. But foreal she like doubts she ever loved me and all and it was never like this before.. it's horrible and idk if it's true or the plan b pills and birth control. I don't understand it's been about almost 5 months. Idk what to do, I mean it's like she truly believes all this is true
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It's so hard, crying really really helps. And it's 100% okay to cry. This is something that should be more talked about because EVERY month it gets better and better. It's just painfully slow. I wish you the best. It really helps to talk to someone, I know I can use it sometimes
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Just try to show her this if you can! Just be patient she will come around I can imagine how hard it must be fore you.
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Can you reach me I need someone to talk to it about
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Please help! Anyone who is going thru this feeling where they think they have lost there feelings for there love one out of nice where. My girl of 5 years, we have a 4 year old and she is going thru the same thing and doesn't believe it's the meds. But foreal she like doubts she ever loved me and all and it was never like this before.. it's horrible and idk if it's true or the plan b pills and birth control. I don't understand it's been about almost 5 months. Idk what to do, I mean it's like she truly believes all this is just thought not caused by the birth control. Can any of y'all explain how y'all feel towards yalls boyfriend? How does it slowly get better? ISk whatto do anymore
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Thank you so much! I actually deactivated mine a month and a half ago of course, but I know I can always use someone to talk to, a lot. I wish I had it again to talk though. It really tears me apart that I feel this way. How did you start feeling this way? For me, one day I randomly questioned whether I found my bf attractive, started feeling very weird within the following 3 weeks, and then "this" started.more like a snowball effect. I don't feel like doing things with him, like go to dinner, grab a drink, hike e.t.c. but force myself in hopes that it will help.
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How long have you been off the birth control? & I need someone to talk to as well my girl is going through the same thing between birth control and plan b
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Well it was like overnight I just felt so distant from him and I tried to take a break but I immediately knew it wasn't what I wanted, I got extremely depressed too, I lost 25 pounds in a month, and looked sickly skinny, and I was having such high anxiety I couldn't get out of bed in the morning. My body was taking over at that point. It feels soooo real which is scary but each month gets better and better. Also I notice the pattern for me is near my period I feel good, and the near ovulation I feel my negative thoughts spike.
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Thanks so much, you have given me so much hope. It's a battle every day and impossible to think that these thoughts are capable of just dissipating, but it makes me hang on so much harder.
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I just went to the my regular MD for a checkup and explained that I have been having anxiety and depression related to my relationship. Doubting love, the future, the whole 9 yards. The nurse told me that it sounds like either "I've had enough with my boyfriend" and that "I don't want the relationship to end" as to why I am obsessing over it. When i explained to the doctor, he looked at me like I had 5 heads. Automatically assumed in his head it was attributed to "emotional" (A.K.A. relationship issues deep down that I am uncomfortable with), but just threw in that down the road maybe I could do some hormone replacement. Literally so enraged. This can really trouble an anxious mind. Thanks again for the help. You have been helping me get through this!
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