Birth control making you feel like a different person? DONT PANIC.

Yeah she is like that with me no sex drive depressed and distant. I mean what do I do? We have a child and idk what to do.. I keep praying hard! So are you with him now? How are you dealing with it now?

See that's exactly how my girl was it started slow and she didn't wana do nothing with me when before that's all she wanted was to be with me and around me. And she didn't wana go eat or go to the store anything. Do you still feel that way? What makes you wana be so distant?

I feel distant and unattracted to him. But at the same time, I continue to do stuff with him like go to dinner, soccer games, concerts. My brain tells me I won't have gun with him, but then I find my self in the end having fun with him.

I have no idea why my brain tells me this or makes me feel this way. There are things I do not like about him that in the past never mattered. Never served as relationship breakers in my book. Now, I feel the opposite ,except I now also am unattracted.

So basically you aren't attracted to him at all no more? And see she stopped wanting to do anything with me as well! And like she used to always want sex, now I couldn't even pay her to have sex it's like her sexy drive is gone or maybe just don't wana do me idk.. but like so when you ain't with him do you miss him? And are you getting any better? Have you read anything that has helped you?

Well, I don't not want anything to do with him now.to be honest,I have no idea what I feel because I am way too emotional.I have no idea if I really am or attracted or not. Regardless, I still want to give to my relationship. Even though I don't feel myself, I'm not completely detaching myself. That is not something I wish to do. I have high hopes that my brain is playing tricks on me. Honestly,I really wouldn't place too much on sex drive. That is probably the last thing that needs to improve for your girlfriend to get better. For me , emotions need to improve first before that happens. I do find myself missing him, but not all the time. I guess I'm getting better but I really don't know. These forums I read. I want my relationship to work, I want to go back to a time when I didn't have to question and think about it every living hour.

What do you mean? So do you not talk to him? Yeah I know I am not worried about sex it's just weird because like she used to basically want it everyday can daily but now nothing. How long have you been off the meds? And so like do you like other dudes or just feel numb ? So you think about every day,? Your lucky you have the knowledge what's wrong with you!

I've been off of the pill for 4 months the first week of July. I talk to him all the time; I don't have any desire to cut off communication with him. It is odd; I feel these horrible feelings but I still carry on with him in normal conversations, and saying things like "I love you" does not hurt me and feels right to say. Yes- it is more of a numbness I would say. For me, the anxiety really takes over in terms of other guys. For example, I will see an attractive guy, and my mind will go into overdrive, making me think because I think the guy is attractive I want to be with him. However, this is not normal, because I was able to brush it off in the past, and there are a lot of attractive people in this world, not just my bf. I know for sure that I have no desire to be with any other guy. My mind will go into overdrive, but then that thought is purely fleeting. I don't continue to think about the other guys. Anxiety has an interesting way of trying to convince you of stuff that is ridiculous and not real.

Yes- my thoughts are every day, all day. At first it was almost like an OCD like deal . However, now the thoughts are either humming in the background, or I get really bad bouts of crying and they are really intrusive. I was doing really well the last few weeks. This past Sunday I went to yoga and completely lost it though, and the past few days were bad. Right now, I am having a moment of clarity where I feel myself again. It won't last long unfortunately, but it gives me a lot of hope that I am on the road to feeling better.

I did a lot of research on this because I was really distraught when I started feeling this way. Plus, when your own general practitioner looks at you like you have 5 heads, you don't have any choice but to look for other people who feel the same way. Plus, the timing of these feelings coincided too well with when I stopped the pill. It is way too hard to believe they just appeared out of nowhere.

Kudos to you for looking for answers as well. It is so hard for anyone to understand this side effect, but it really does help smooth the process.

Yeah I mean that's how it was with her, like she started the pills and it was cool then she started slowly being differnt, not wanting to hang and not wanting to touch, in like wtf this ain't you this has never been you. And saying stuff like idk why I feel like this I just want to sleep and be left alone. I tried al I could on every level she was literally like a differnt person & still is! Like she's been off 5 months now. And she I can kinda see signs of the old her but not sure. Like she has been screen shotting pics of me on my social media snap chat instagram and she will be more flirty and send me pics of her on "accident" lol or whatever. Pretty pics of her but then outta noewre she will go back to being numb. And yeah I had to look it up! I pray everyday for the thousand of women going through this!

Yeah unfortunately it is like this! Most times I'm just ok, other times I'm crying all day and then there are rare moments of clarity. It sounds like she is getting there. I know it's very hard to think that, but feelings don't change as quick as weather.

Yea then she will like be like I accidentally sent that lol I'm like okay and she will screen shot my stuff and be kinda flirty we basically ain't together, but she will do stuff like that and flirt with me and so on I left her alone because she works goes to college online we have a kid and she stresses a lot and now this so it's ton on her body and emotions! But it's weird because she ain't came out and wanted to do it or date but flirts and does all that I think she is getting better but confused. Idk what to do anymore

But at the end of the day she has accidentally sent me stuff a bunch lol so I think she isn't confused but I pray for you and every girl going thru it daily

Thank you much.

Do yo think she is starting to come around or confused? And so do you not feel better then you did a month ago?

Also what should I do in the meantime?