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I'm 19 years old and when my boyfriend fingers me I always end up bleeding afterwords.  I've been trying to hide it from him but he's started to notice.  It only happens when he fingers me really deep and kind of roughly. But the thing is, if he goes soft and slow I never feel anything so he has to go deep.  Is there something wrong with me that I need to get checked out? This has never happened before with other guys. 

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Yes, there's a problem here.

more than 2/3rds of the feeling in a woman's sexual organs are in the outer 1/4 of the vagina.

In short, the deeper you go, the less you feel, if only because there are not alot of nerve endings up there.

The highest sensitivity is the clit, but women have also reported a g-spot in the upper roof of the outer vagina, plus the lips and labia respond to touch.

If your bf feels he must "dig deep" with his fingers, he's missing the point.  Though some women report they enjoy feeling contact with the cervix at the back of the vagina, the majority do not.  And while some women enjoy the feeling of "being full" from a deeply penetrating penis, the majority prefer attention to the outer 1/3 of the vagina as that's where the stimulation "pays off".

If you do not enjoy deep fingering by your bf, then let him know!  You are in control, my dear, and if he's anysort of gentleman, he'll listen to your concerns and respond.  If not, he's a lout.

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