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okay so, i am 24 years old and married. I had sex this morning and it hurt. (position that was painful was from behind) anyways, I'm a week away from my period (not on birth control) and after sex I went to bathroom and when I wiped I noticed a clear like discharge tinged with blood. I also have had this cyst like lump on my labia come up before my period the last two months. I have an appointment with my gyn this month but I'm so scared I have cancer (damn you google). 

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Hi Phill. When you say it hurt when you had sex was it a constant pain from the time his penis went in or just when it was right in deep and was that the only position you used or did you use others that didn't hurt?
Where about on your labia is the cyst you have been getting relative to your clitoris and vaginal entrance and is it on your minora or majora?
I don't think you have to worry about cancer as there are many things that can cause that to happen. :-)
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It was only when he went deep in. Like he was hitting my cervix. But we have been married for 5 years and this has never happened before.. And then the bleeding after terrified me. And it's on the inside on the front left (sorry I don't know exactly what that is called.sad I know) but it showed up and it worried but I do shave so I thought it to be a ingrown hair or something along those lines. But then it came back both times around my time of the month and i don't squeeze it, it actually will pop on its own and it's pretty painful around the time it pops but not like an open sore. Never had a Pap smear come back abnormal and have only had 1 sexual partner and do not have stds. But the two things happening and once really worried me it could be cancer (I work at an oncology office so I think I have cancer every day) but also, sometimes after I have my period that usually last 5 days I will stop bleeding and then start again for another day but this has been happening for as long as I can remember. I'm sorry for the overload of information. It being Saturday I can't go into doctor and the ER seems a bit excessive. Just trying to get some mental relief.
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Also, I didn't really answer your question. It was only the one position (from behind) others were fine.
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It's fine don't worry about the long posts.
Considering that it was only when he went in deep then I would say it was the head of his penis hitting your cervix in that position as your cervix will be gettin to its lowest point as your period is about to start. Is it continuous bleeding like your period would be or was it just after you finished then it stopped?
When you say at the top left inside I take it you mean inside you labia (lip) up near your clit am I right?
As I said I don't think it has anything to do with cancer :-)
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It was just a little when I wiped and nothing since.. And yeah that's where the "cyst" is located. That's just what I'm guessing it is until I go to doctor. It's not like a sore or anything. It literally looks likes skin colored pimple on the inside. So weird!
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I think it cold of just been because your close to your period and with the deep penetration hitting your cervix made a little blood leak out that's all and the cyst could be on one of the lubrication glands that are either side your clit that can be known to flare up around the time of menstruation all in all I certain you have nothing to worry about and I hope I have managed to put your mind at ease :-)
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You certainly have. Thank you!
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Your welcome :-)
P.S. post the answers you get from your doctor on this post if you don't mind then it will also help others and I can also see if I was right :-)
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I will!!!! Thanks again :)
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