bleeding / virginity

Hi Docs,

Could you pls advise how can i can get the virginity if my vagina can bleeds as i had a sex with my bf and i was not so meture i did so many times but i dont think so that time even i bleeds but when my bf put his fingure in my vagina and after very deep his fingure touching somethign and then i bleed that time i dont know anythign abt this would appreciate if you could give us some help full reply as i m getting married after 1 month and i m very much upset wht to do if i dont bleed and my hubby get to know this think i dont want my family n my sis to be shashed less pls helpme out for this on urgent basis.