Ok, I am 32 and I really am starting to become concerned with my boyfriend. He is never turned on. I'am the one who always makes the 1st move. The closet to having sexual contact with him is blow jobs and he takes forever to get off. When having sex with me he won't kiss me, or any of my other parts. I have tried everything I can to get him to have sex with me. And if I get lucky he cums quick! I never get off! Because he does this I feel like I must be digusting. We both put on some weight after we got together. We've been together for 2 years. Sometimes I wonder if he cheats on me. I just don't catch it. We are engaged the 1st 6 monthes together we had good awesome sex. Now it just seems all about him getting off. I don't feel loved anymore! He knows of this issue and gets mad when we talk of it. He puts himself down. Then I feel guilty. :'(
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I can somewhat relate to you because I am sort of going through the same thing myself.
I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 35. I wonder if age has anything to do with how turned on a guy can get. I sometimes feel very low about myself as well when he doesnt seem to be turned on by me much, even when i am in my underwear or naked. I am confident about my body because i work out and all, but my fear is that he might not be very interested in the female body in general. I don't remember him kissing any other parts of my body either. We've NEVER enjoyed sex together at all - all our 4 attempts so far failed very miserably and it got me really worried as to whether i should still stay in this relationship
I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 35. I wonder if age has anything to do with how turned on a guy can get. I sometimes feel very low about myself as well when he doesnt seem to be turned on by me much, even when i am in my underwear or naked. I am confident about my body because i work out and all, but my fear is that he might not be very interested in the female body in general. I don't remember him kissing any other parts of my body either. We've NEVER enjoyed sex together at all - all our 4 attempts so far failed very miserably and it got me really worried as to whether i should still stay in this relationship
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ok girls you need to talk to your men and just ask them whats up and what you can do to make it better make them more interested....performance issues happen but this sound more like relationship issues and you need to talk
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