Hello!
I got married last year,and i figured out that my wife isn't a vergin and when i asked her about it she denied it and told me maybe i lost my hymen somehow when i was growing up.
ALl signs shows that she lost it before but she insists on saying the contract!!!! Any Help?
My Main question is: is there a way for doctors to tell when she lost her hymen for the first time?
Regards
C
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How did you figure out that your new wife was NOT a virgin? What were the signs, according to you? Many times, a young women can break her hymen thru non sexual activity. Riding a bike, excercise, usage of a tampon, a fall, an accident...etc. Or, her hymen could have been so thin that she didn't even know that YOU ruptured it. Some women DO NOT feel pain, nor do they bleed when their virginity is taken, other women have pain and they do bleed the first time out. Some times the hymen can be so thick that a doctor can help rupture it.
A doctor can see when the hymen is intact, but they can not tell when it was ruptured. What your wife tells you is true. If your wife tells you that you were her first, you should believe her. I am curious to know what makes you so certain that she was not a virgin? Could it be that she didn't cry out in pain? Or there was no blood on the sheets afterwards? The worst thing you can do is to doubt her words, this is not the right way to begin your lives together. Take her word for it and move on.
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My old account is not working anymore so i created this one instead,anyways...
after the first time the girl will have some symptoms which none occured;
and i know it is different from one girl to another; but no blood, no feelings no pain at all , and as you know she should face some pain at her lower back for at least two hours after her hymen is broken;
I read alot of articles about this subject and i am aware of the situation but i was just wondering if there is a way to know when just to be sure... but i will take your word on that.
eh by the way , i will not doubt her i just wanted some extra information and maybe i will take her to the doctor to check her hymen "" maybe it is still there"
ty
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You really need to do a little more research. As i said in my first reply, she does not need to feel pain at all, either before or after. You can take her to the doctor all you want, but you will make yourself look foolish. Why would you "take" her just to find that out?
What part of the country do you live in? Just curious!
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