Is she a virgine or not?

Only you wife can tell you.

 

Blood typically comes from when the hymen is ruptured by the penis. But it does not always happen like this. It depends on so many factors. Some hymens are very thin; some hardly exist (from birth); some are just very elastic; the penis might not be very big; vigorous activity or a fall may have caused it to rupture in childhood (or later).

 

How well did you know your wife before you were married? Unless you have good reason to doubt her moral behaviour, I would suggest you do not even ask, and believe her to be a virgin. However, if you do, do it gently and lovingly; not aggressively or accusingly. To accuse her when she could well be innocent of any immorality would be cruel. True courage and manliness will be shown in the way you handle this.

 

I hope this helps. If I can help further, please ask. I look forward to your response. In the light of the sensitivity, you might like to message me personally.

I never bled the 1st time i had sex. i believe its very normal to not bleed. i think especially if the female is fully grown/ done growing. my bf had fingered me several times before which was likely why i didnt bled and didnt even have pain the first time i had sex.. maybe she masturbated before you were married. could have stretched her hymen<--which is wat causes the blood, during exercise or regular activity or a doctors exam like checking for cancer could have stretched it. basically, there are a lot of reasons a woman doesnt bleed during her first time so i wouldnt jump to the conclusion that she wasnt a virgin when u were married just because there was no blood.