Can I get HIV from vaginal fluid? How can I protect myself?

Hi, guest.

Your question involves important concerns about sexual health and the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It's great that you're looking to be informed and take precautions.

Herpes is typically transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact with an infected area, not through the consumption of bodily fluids. However, if the woman has genital herpes and you have oral contact with her genitals, there is a risk of contracting oral herpes if she is experiencing an outbreak or shedding the virus.

HIV is present in semen, and while the risk of transmission through oral sex is generally lower compared to vaginal or anal sex, it is not zero. The risk increases if there are cuts or sores in the mouth or if there is the presence of blood (such as from menstrual blood or bleeding gums).

1. Use of Dental Dams: Using a dental dam during oral sex can significantly reduce the risk of STI transmission. A dental dam is a thin, square piece of latex or polyurethane that can be placed over the genitals.

2. Condom Use: If the semen is from another person (e.g., during a threesome), encourage the use of condoms to reduce STI transmission.

3. STI Testing: Regular STI testing for both you and your partners is crucial. This helps in early detection and treatment of any STIs.

4. Avoid Oral Sex with Open Sores: Avoid oral sex if you have open sores in your mouth or if the woman has any genital sores or symptoms of an outbreak.

5. Educate Yourself and Partners: Being informed about STIs and discussing sexual health openly with your partners can lead to safer sexual practices.

Remember, practicing safe sex and being informed about your and your partners' sexual health are key components in reducing the risk of STI transmission.