I just started taking the pill earlier this month for the first time, because my boyfriend was coming to visit  (very long distance)  I do not take them at the same time everyday, but I still took them. Sometimes I would miss a day and take 2 instead to make up for the last. This last week my boyfriend came to visit and he had ejaculated in me 3 times. I stopped taking my pill as soon as he went back home because I figured that I didn't need it anymore. I got some light bleeding on and off, and lots of cramping. My hormones are all out of whack. Is this a normal period? Am I pregnant or in the early stages? What is going on with me?