I've had a few boyfriends but none like my current boyfriend who is all about pleasing me. The sex is explosive and we can't get enough. We both agree the sex is the best we've ever had. There is strong sexual chemistry between us. We're not sure if it's love but basically when we meet we can't keep our hands and lips off each other. I am already wet before he's even touched me!
I believe it depends on the person. I had my first orgasm with him and I'm 36 years old! He makes me cum EVERY time, and three times within an hour when I am on top. I can't get enough of him. We love kissing each other. it is all about communication and learning about what you both like. He knows I like being on top because he lasts longer and I can have my orgasm and cum three times. It's the most satisfying feeling.
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Ii have somewhat of an similAr problem . I'm a girl and masterbate sometimes 3 times a day , I use to be able to cum with a guy easy now I have to fake any and all orgasims .. I love my boyfriend . But I'm wondering is it bc I've spoiled my self with porn and master bating ?
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I completely empathise with you on this. I feel bad because my boyfriend thinks that he has made me cum when I haven't. We have been going out for over two years and we have sex a lot so he knows my body really well but he just can't seem to finish me. It's not that he is bad because I know he isn't, it feels really good and I know it but it's almost as if the pleasure never builds up to anything or it's too intense to focus on. Even when I'm really turned on and he's going down on me it just doesn't build up and it gets to the point where I'd rather just do it on my own with him fingering me. We are each other's first so we have never had sexual experiences with anyone else and it seems it's a mutual problem because he has the same thing. Sure I can make him cum when we are actually having intercourse and sometimes by giving him a ha****b. However, blowjobs are the worst, when we first got together I was the first person to ever give him head and after sucking him for a short while I could make him cum. Now I just can't, he says he can't really feel it while I'm putting in a lot of effort to make it good. So maybe we are both really sh*t I wouldn't know but it is very frustrating when you are both trying to finish and the only way we can is if he cums during intercourse and I'm rubbing myself. And I know that a lot of the build up to the orgasm does come from the clitoris being stimulated but I always have to do it myself, he can't even finish me with oral. Any suggestions for help on this? Would appreciate it x
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year now officially. Today was the first time (after LOTS of trying, let me tell you) that he made me cum without me "helping" (touching myself before) at all ! :) I used to be exactly like you, I could only cum from self-stimulation - but he was so patient with me and now it seems like I can do it! It takes time and really getting to know the person that your with. good luck!
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Misinformation, do not listen to this person.
Men and women have trade-offs. Most males can be easily pleased, but they have a resting period after going once. For women it takes awhile to initially discover the 'secret', but once discovered, is even better than the male release in which the woman can release without resting period, several times (depending on the spot).
There are 4 different places a woman can orgasm ... even better than a man (Men can also release through contact of the prostate).
G spot, clitoris, a spot and u spot. The clitoris will get tired after one round, similar to a penis. However, if you train your body you can go multiple rounds. The other spots within, don't need so much rest time in-between.
Most people only know how to have sex ... not make love. Learn how to make love, not sex.
Men and women have trade-offs. Most males can be easily pleased, but they have a resting period after going once. For women it takes awhile to initially discover the 'secret', but once discovered, is even better than the male release in which the woman can release without resting period, several times (depending on the spot).
There are 4 different places a woman can orgasm ... even better than a man (Men can also release through contact of the prostate).
G spot, clitoris, a spot and u spot. The clitoris will get tired after one round, similar to a penis. However, if you train your body you can go multiple rounds. The other spots within, don't need so much rest time in-between.
Most people only know how to have sex ... not make love. Learn how to make love, not sex.
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It's Mother Nature's mean trick. The woman gets jealous of the man's ability to get off, and the man can sense her frustration, so he feels inadequate. So he either works harder to please her, or leaves so she can then f**k a better man who can finally "do it" for her (maybe, lol). Either way, it keeps her getting the most determined sperm and screwed on a continuous basis. Look around, life is filled with these cruel little realities, lol.
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Hi, i also have a similar problem. I used to cum with my boyfriend but not all the time but the point was i could sometimes. For roughly the past year and a half i haven't had an orgasm and its really stressing me out. My boyfriend has no problem cumming, but for the past while sex has literally been minutes. . . i did explain to him the problem i was having so we tried again tonight and he basically went soft inside me :( whats wrong with me? Why is this happening?
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I'm having hard time to get orgasm my ex knew how to do it but my boyfriend don't, I told him but I don't want to say him again and again I guess that will disappoint him. I'm not even that frank with him to tell his what are my good spots I feel so low he tries but he is so hard everytime
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When you say you ex could make you orgasm was that through actual intercourse or manual stimulation?
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It sounds to me like you are questioning your relationship with this guy. Do you only have sex? Or do you have an romantic life as well? If u guys are only having sex, then to me it's a good sign that he is not the man for you. But if you guys cuddle and hold hands and hug, then I think he genuinely does care for you. He may have not meant what he said in the way that you took it. he was probably tired from cumming, excited from having sex, and angry bcuz he couldn't make s U cum.
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With masturbation cum out but with ny bf i dont feel anything i dont know whats wrong with ne but him to not get bad mood i act like it came out but i wanna enjoy n get romantic with him but its not happening i try my best but still :(
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It's something that's more common than you think for because 98% of guys do not know where a females stimulation points are, they just think finger in the vagina will do it where in fact it won't as the inside of the vagina has very few nerve endings to stimulate, the main stimulation point is the clitoris playing with the nipples and areola can also help. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to learn your zones and work on them with your help to guide him.
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This is what I have learned in college and the answer is that girls can't orgasm through penetration alone and if they do it is because of the motion or thumping. Girls have orgasms through their clitoris above the vagina which in fact are pretty distant from each other and penetration might feel good but it's not getting the spot. To get the spot girls need to touch themselves to reach the orgasm along with their partner.
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1 in 3??? Nope! Sounds like you just don't know how to make a woman cum and so you're shifting the blame on to every woman by stating they can't cum. Women can cum. You just need to stop being a selfish lover.
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