When we first started playing, I used my hands to masturbate him, but I couldn't make him orgasm. I've tried oral sex (I can't deepthroat though), and I couldn't make him cum then either. He says he can in sex. I lost my virginity to him, and he still couldn't cum (we used a regular condom).
Is it me, or is it him? I haven't had this much difficulty making guys cum before! Do you think the condom could have made it worse for him when we had sex? He says it's a bit tight, maybe we should use large instead of regular? Do you think I might be able to make him come through sex in the future?
Is it me, or is it him? I haven't had this much difficulty making guys cum before! Do you think the condom could have made it worse for him when we had sex? He says it's a bit tight, maybe we should use large instead of regular? Do you think I might be able to make him come through sex in the future?
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Hey. Whatever you do DO NOT blame yourself. Your guy has the problem not you. I promise. My ex had the same problem. I still dont know what "the problem" was to this day, but that's for him to figure out. No body before my ex had a problem and my fiance definately does not have a problem. Believe me I spent 5yrs with my ex (on and off), so I do understand how you feel. It is not you. Dont you tell yourself it is you. Don't let him make you feel like it is you. If you go have sex with someone else he wont have a problem. (not telling you to do that but if you did you will see that I am right) I think the tight condom thing is an excuse because he doesn't know why he is having this problem either and it is embarrassing. Get the large if you want but dont let him tell you that he will cum if you dont use a condom at all (that is an excuse too. plus you should never put yourself at risk of STDs or pregnancy)
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:$ well i dont know me and my bf has been together for awhile and i cant make him cum either like he might one time every 3 days but i mean he gets really hard then gose limp for some reason is it me
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I agree with SCHOGIRL 200 %. It's not you and don't let him talk you into things you don't want to do.
It sounds to me like he may be just using you, as it is. "He says he can in sex. I lost my virginity to him, and he still couldn't cum"
You started with hand jobs, then oral because he couldn't cum by hand, then vaginal because he couldn't come with oral and he still couldn't cum. What's next, is he going to get you to try anal?
If you believe this is really love, he should be more than willing to get professional help.
It sounds to me like he may be just using you, as it is. "He says he can in sex. I lost my virginity to him, and he still couldn't cum"
You started with hand jobs, then oral because he couldn't cum by hand, then vaginal because he couldn't come with oral and he still couldn't cum. What's next, is he going to get you to try anal?
If you believe this is really love, he should be more than willing to get professional help.
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Its most likely in his head, tho I find it hard to believe he cant cum with oral..to me thats the bes t thing to do to a guy to make him cum
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