Ok I know I am a grown adult, I took a health class in school and I know how a woman gets pregnant so don't laugh at me. I just had a major surgery to remove a tumor in my uterus 7 weeks ago and yes I know I am not even suppose to be having sex yet because I am in the recovery process but I did twice about 3 weeks after my surgery. All three of these times the guy said he couldn't finish after about an hour of trying. We even went to sleep woke up and tried again. He said he never finished and I know he didn't completely finish. After I had sex the last time I spotted a little for a couple of days. I assumed I was just having a light period. Now I went to the doctor for my last follow up appointment from my surgery and she does a complete exam and tells me that I am pregnant. How can I be pregnant if he never got off. He is the only one I have had sex with and he asked me three days before my doctors appointment could I be pregnant and we talked about this that how could it even be possible. Now I am being told I am and I am completely confused. I've been googling about preejaculation and pregnancy and there are so many conflicting oppions. I am so confused, I don't know what to do because now the guy is saying the same things that I am and thinking that I am lying about the whole situation. I am going to go to a clinic as well as my doctor for a second oppion I'm not completely stupid but this isn't making any sense to me... HELP can someone maybe shed some light on this situation