My boyfriend just came home from deployment for christmas these past two weeks. He hasn't had any other sexual partners during his deployment and I had one other sexual partner a few months before we got together. While he was in town we had a lot of sex some protected and some unprotected. I was experiencing pain the last few days he was in town but chalked it up to vaginal soreness due to the rough sex. Now I have one small red bump on the lip of my vagina that only hurts when I go pee and itches occasionally this is paired with a white discharge that doesn't have a foul smell or odd clumpiness to it. I am absolutely petrified that it's herpes. Please help!!!