How is everyone doing today? :) I hope swell. SORRY THIS IS KIND OF LONG! :/ Okay here's my story/question...I'm a full time college student trying to focus on the upcoming finals in a month. I ended up reconnecting with an ex of mine on March 26th. We had unprotected sex a few times in that night I reconnected w/ him...the whole ordeal...except he pulled out. He does (like many other men) have precum. Anyways, I ovulated about 3 or 4 days after the deed was done. A few days before and definitely after ovulation ( I can tell when I ovulate) I've been cramping. My periods have been irregular for the past few years. One month it will be 30 days apart, the next FEW months it maybe 24 days apart, then back up to 28. The thing is, they are noticeable. Meaning I don't necessarily think there is/was a chance I could be preggers, but for example when I am in class or driving to school I feel the cramps. I'll be listening to music or the professor lecture and bam I notice the cramps. If anything my uterus area (where I get cramps I guess) just feels heavy/tight. When I try to sleep on my stomach I can't for long because I start cramping and it's annoying when I am trying to sleep. In fact, just laying here typing this, I feel crampy. I don't have sore boobs, but my nipples are what's sensitive. The reason I am telling you all this is because I would just like some input to what any of ya'll might think this could be...or maybe have a similar experience? MY MAIN QUESTION is...should I even be considering that fact that I maybe pregnant or can something else be going on with me body? (Of course, if I don't get my period I'll take a test)...I don't want to be pregnant, so I was gonna try to avoid thinking about it, but those cramps are way annoying...

 

P.S. I know unprotected sex was a dumb decision and if any of ya'll wanna tell me so, that's fine. It's criticism that I am more than willing to take because yeah it was foolish and irresponsible. I guess it's just I've had unprotected sex before when I was younger (yes I know that's horrible too) and never got pregnant, so I guess I felt it wouldn't happen...