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i just confuse my boyfriend make finger 3 times and it bleed on the thrid time just like a very small blood on my panty ? but we havent have a sexual intercourse. it does mean i lost my virginity because i have a spotting?

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no. you loose your virginity when you have sex for the first time.

fingers are too small!
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Well then, what is "sex?" If it is the first time the girl is penetrated, as wiki says, then she could've lost her virginity to any cause, from masturbation to unusual bicycling accidents.

And most men have fingers wider and longer than most women, especially if the woman is very petite and the man has large hands.
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Frankly, our society defines loosing your virginity as having sexual penetration. As you tell us, you have not had intercourse, therefore, you are still a virgin.

However, after reading more and more postings, I'm thinking that the definition of virgin ought to be changing. You HAVE had sexual experience, because you've been fingered and have bled. I would say that fits with loosing your virginity, but the technical definition says you have not.

Check your local culture and standards. That's what matters.
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. there are 4 dimensions to virginity:

. the reproductive
is that a woman`s best goes into making the first child,
although one might say that a woman could give her best to each child
if waiting several years between each one .

. the sexual
is that a woman will feel much looser after a non-cesarean delivery,
and she may have other issues like a prolapsed vagina
which change the sensation of intercourse .

. most importantly, there is the issue of disease transmission,
which might affect even those who are just involved in petting .
. suppose that a virus that causes cervical cancer
can be transfered from a finger cut to a vagina?
. then your future husband may have to deal with
the early death of his wife to cancer,
or her early sterility due to an operation to remove cervical cancer .

. finally, the psychology
is that we wish to impress on people
the health and social consequences of promiscuity (having many petting partners)
esp'ly when there is no popular concept of safe-sex .
. if there is a test for every possible form of disease,
and you pass every test,
then you have virtually kept your virginity,
but
for the sake of setting a good example,
some would condemn anything that is not full chastity .
-- and who can blame them?
when virginity is just "cherry",
while an epidemic of cervical cancer virus rages on .
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me and my boyfriend have oral sex alot,
cause im not ready for sex yet. a couple days ago, he used two fingers instead of one while fingering, and I bled.
then today he did again but with only one and I bled again, but it was more brown than red.
does this mean my hymen broke?
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To answer your question, you really need a GYN exam to determine if your hymen has torn. Some women may be able to tell with the use of a hand mirror and a flashlight, but I would think your doctor could assist you best.

Depending on where that blood was coming from, it COULD be your hymen, but could it not be your period? There's not enough information here for me to really answer your question.

There's something else about your posting that nags at me.
You say you have oral sex a lot, but you're not ready for sex yet.

It seems to me that you are engaging in a sexual act, so it puzzles me how you can say that you're not ready for sex yet.
Are you saying that you give him blow jobs instead of intercourse?
Or are you saying that he gives you oral sex but this time, he inserted two fingers?

Anyway you describe it, it sounds like you're sexually active to me.

Does anyone else agree?
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Well We've tried sex, but I dont want to, cause it hurts.
but, when we have oral sex, I enjoy it.
I do give him alot of blowjobs too.
I feel like im ready for sex, but then it hurts, and I just dont do it.
He always says it'll stretch the more we try..

You did help me, thanks.
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This is a good one. :-D XD XD
I cant stop laughing at it.
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Well ralston,
if you're just here for entertainment, leave.
this is a site for information, not humor.
I take this seriously, if you think its funny....stay out of it

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you know your hymen broke if there was little white bits in the blood.
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m confusd!!!! my bf inserted it bt din penetrate at all.......dr wasnt ne pain n we did not use ne protection! da next mornng wen i was doing #2..dr was a little blood in my bottom bt not in my "v" !!!did i lose my virginity?? n i dont want 2 get pregnant!!!
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hw u felt aftr tht?dd u get periods for the time aftr losing virginity

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how you felt after that..did u get periods for the time aftr losing virginity??
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to know this i think you should consult a doctor
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