thats good though..sumthing to be proud of..n staying on good terms with ur family..
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9/23/07 is my wedding date. We are having a big church wedding and a big party at a very expensive hotel that looks like a castle. We are going on a cruise around the Mediterian for our 3 week honeymoon. We are going to see South of France, Paris, Italy, Greece, Monaco and South of Spain. Mine and his family had to take out loans to pay for this wedding. He gave my family a big dowry to marry me, which is a custom in my country His family wanted a pre-nup, which I sign to tell them that I am marrying him for love and not for his money. I am planning to stay with him for life, I do not believe in divorce. This is actually his second marriage, he is 40. His first marriage only lasted 4 years because she cheated on him constantly, did not want children, and walked out on him when she got a part in hollywood. She is an actress. She was married 4 times before him and had alot of abortions. He married her after knowing her for 4 months in Vegas.
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it doesnt hurt that much and the key factor is just to keep it slow and gentle. Perhaps Use some lubricant.
You may bleed, but not nessacarily that much.
Hope this helps and good luck with the wedding! :-)
You may bleed, but not nessacarily that much.
Hope this helps and good luck with the wedding! :-)
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He is also very big and thick. Although I have not seen it but he has a big bulge when he wears jeans and I have felt it while we were making out once. Will it even go inside me because I am tight from being a virgin.
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Even if he is huge. I talked about it with him and he told me how big he is. He is 10 inches long and his girth is 6. Is that big? I have never seen but am nervous.
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Well, I hope your marriage goes well :-D
But on to the topic at hand. I might not be able to help, seeing as I'm... 13
BUT, it WILL be able to go inside of you. Your fiance is 6 inches thick? Wow... pretty big. I'm also a little ebaressed on the subject but I know a bit ;-)
Use ALOT of lubrication, I reccomend vasaline or a store brought product. (Bought from a sex shoppe)
For your first time, it will be a new experience and it WILL hurt, it might be alot seeing as he's thick and long, but it might not. It depends on how loose you are at the time, remember, it's not wise to dive right in. Before he goes in, loosen the vagina, relax your muscles. Being afraid will make mere pain feel like getting trampled by an elephant.
Lubricant is a MUST HAVE for a first-timer or an old pro. Your Vagina makes a slight lubricant, but I don't think it will be enough.
A way to make yourself not afraid is to talk to some friends who have had sex, ask them questions. If they laugh at you, they're no true friend. A real friend is someone who would work to find out the answer for you.
If you're still uncomfortable, try talking to your fiance. Somehow find a path to the subject of sex, and find out some things.
Try to find answers to some of these example questions:
Have you ever had sex?
When was your first time (If answered "yes" to the question above)
Would you like to have sex?
Once you become comfortable around the subject, try talking to him lightly. Say somethings like:
I'm a little nervous, I've never had sex...
That's not a good one in my opinion. He can go one way or another, either say "It'll be alright, I'm not ready untill you're ready" or he can say/think 'A virgin? I'm not comfortable... this is a mistake, I can't do this'
I'm sorry, but that's how we men think, it's odd I know, but...
I hope I helped :-)
~Ochikondeiru
But on to the topic at hand. I might not be able to help, seeing as I'm... 13
BUT, it WILL be able to go inside of you. Your fiance is 6 inches thick? Wow... pretty big. I'm also a little ebaressed on the subject but I know a bit ;-)
Use ALOT of lubrication, I reccomend vasaline or a store brought product. (Bought from a sex shoppe)
For your first time, it will be a new experience and it WILL hurt, it might be alot seeing as he's thick and long, but it might not. It depends on how loose you are at the time, remember, it's not wise to dive right in. Before he goes in, loosen the vagina, relax your muscles. Being afraid will make mere pain feel like getting trampled by an elephant.
Lubricant is a MUST HAVE for a first-timer or an old pro. Your Vagina makes a slight lubricant, but I don't think it will be enough.
A way to make yourself not afraid is to talk to some friends who have had sex, ask them questions. If they laugh at you, they're no true friend. A real friend is someone who would work to find out the answer for you.
If you're still uncomfortable, try talking to your fiance. Somehow find a path to the subject of sex, and find out some things.
Try to find answers to some of these example questions:
Have you ever had sex?
When was your first time (If answered "yes" to the question above)
Would you like to have sex?
Once you become comfortable around the subject, try talking to him lightly. Say somethings like:
I'm a little nervous, I've never had sex...
That's not a good one in my opinion. He can go one way or another, either say "It'll be alright, I'm not ready untill you're ready" or he can say/think 'A virgin? I'm not comfortable... this is a mistake, I can't do this'
I'm sorry, but that's how we men think, it's odd I know, but...
I hope I helped :-)
~Ochikondeiru
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okkk the 13 yr old..did her thing...!!!
but yea like i stated he will be able it will hurt n its gonna take time..dnt matter what size it will hurt
but yea like i stated he will be able it will hurt n its gonna take time..dnt matter what size it will hurt
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Thanx for the tip, I will let you know how things go after the honeymoon. I am getting married on sunday. I won't be back for 3 weeks.
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Hope you have a long and successful marriage, and that you are clear about your true feelings for him and how comfortable you are with sex. Remember, it's your choice, not anyone elses ;-)
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